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INTRO
I met this woman on a tennis camp. She was there with 2 friends, and I was there with a friend of mine. Our interactions during the camp were purely social. As a matter of fact I barely had any opportunity to talk to her one to one.
I mingled with her friends and generally with everyone. A the last day of the camp we had a small group of closer friends, so when we decided to create a facebook group so we can stay in touch when we return to our home town.
BACK HOME
Once back home and back to work, I decided to contact this girl directly. Initially, we just texted back and forth. Then I decided to invite her for coffee. She accepted.
We went out one evening. We went for a coffee first, then a stroll and finally a quick drink. Most of the evening was pretty platonic, friends like. Only during the drink in the second venue, I touched her arm several times, to indicate some sexual interest. The conversation was decent but not spectacular, probably lacking some comfort and emotional connection.
TEXTING
Even though I had some doubts whether she will be interested in continuing, I decided to keep texting. I was positively surpised that she kept texting me back pretty enthusiastically. Seeing this positive reaction, I invited her to my place. I proposed to cook ceviche for her, which is my specialty. We continued texting until we finally met at my place during the weekend.
ISOLATION
I thought that the evening went pretty well. I cooked for her, we had a glass of wine along the ceviche, and after that we sit and talked for some time. Once I started escalating on her, everything went 100% smoothly. I escalated with zero resistance. In fact, she was even helping me or pushing it futher (I kissed her slowly and gently, and she started kissing me faster and more intensely). When we were in bedroom, she was talking some of her clothes on her own.
AFTER SEX
And then everything collapsed in the next few days. I'm actually interested to keep seeing this girl. I think she has a potential to be my girlfriend. But unfortunately, I felt a lot of coldness from her. Her text replies initially became shorter and for the last two mesages she only liked my messages without replying anything back. It's been only few days since our evening together but I feel something has changed/happened. And I can't figure out what?
I have few ideas.
A. SHE PUMPED AND DUMPED ME
I was interested in potential relationship while she was only interested to have sex. I didn't see this vibe from her, and there are some reasons to believe it was not the case. She was telling me a lot about her family, sending me photos of her sister children, telling me about her work, background etc.
On the other hand, maybe she decided that I'm not socially up in her level. She is a well educated, rich, girl from good home. I'm also all of these, but maybe a notch lower. It's definitely my inner game issue. I still get nervous when stakes are high, when I get to date a really beatiful woman or a good girlfriend candidate. I also have negative mental background about wealth, back from my childhood.
So one interpretation could be that I she was initially interested in me socially, but finally only the sexual attraction remained. I'm undoubtely a very sexy guy, I get attraction signals every day from several of women, so I'm starting to think that she may not be interested in being my girlfriend, but she still wanted to fuck me.
2. I DEPLETED HER EGO
My seduction process is actually pretty solid these days. I feel like I have a high chance of bedding a woman who would go for a date with me. It's not always on the first date, but if I decide to continue it after the first date, it's usually pretty smooth and I have about 80-90% of success.
With this girl, my process was SMOOOOTH. I did pretty much every step correctly and there was zero resistance along the way.
Could this be that she regrets what she did?
3. SHE IS JUST BUSY AND SHE WILL GET BACK TO ME WHEN SHE HAS MORE TIME
This girl has plenty on her plate. She has a demanding job and plenty of after work activities so maybe she is just busy.
I met this woman on a tennis camp. She was there with 2 friends, and I was there with a friend of mine. Our interactions during the camp were purely social. As a matter of fact I barely had any opportunity to talk to her one to one.
I mingled with her friends and generally with everyone. A the last day of the camp we had a small group of closer friends, so when we decided to create a facebook group so we can stay in touch when we return to our home town.
BACK HOME
Once back home and back to work, I decided to contact this girl directly. Initially, we just texted back and forth. Then I decided to invite her for coffee. She accepted.
We went out one evening. We went for a coffee first, then a stroll and finally a quick drink. Most of the evening was pretty platonic, friends like. Only during the drink in the second venue, I touched her arm several times, to indicate some sexual interest. The conversation was decent but not spectacular, probably lacking some comfort and emotional connection.
TEXTING
Even though I had some doubts whether she will be interested in continuing, I decided to keep texting. I was positively surpised that she kept texting me back pretty enthusiastically. Seeing this positive reaction, I invited her to my place. I proposed to cook ceviche for her, which is my specialty. We continued texting until we finally met at my place during the weekend.
ISOLATION
I thought that the evening went pretty well. I cooked for her, we had a glass of wine along the ceviche, and after that we sit and talked for some time. Once I started escalating on her, everything went 100% smoothly. I escalated with zero resistance. In fact, she was even helping me or pushing it futher (I kissed her slowly and gently, and she started kissing me faster and more intensely). When we were in bedroom, she was talking some of her clothes on her own.
AFTER SEX
And then everything collapsed in the next few days. I'm actually interested to keep seeing this girl. I think she has a potential to be my girlfriend. But unfortunately, I felt a lot of coldness from her. Her text replies initially became shorter and for the last two mesages she only liked my messages without replying anything back. It's been only few days since our evening together but I feel something has changed/happened. And I can't figure out what?
I have few ideas.
A. SHE PUMPED AND DUMPED ME
I was interested in potential relationship while she was only interested to have sex. I didn't see this vibe from her, and there are some reasons to believe it was not the case. She was telling me a lot about her family, sending me photos of her sister children, telling me about her work, background etc.
On the other hand, maybe she decided that I'm not socially up in her level. She is a well educated, rich, girl from good home. I'm also all of these, but maybe a notch lower. It's definitely my inner game issue. I still get nervous when stakes are high, when I get to date a really beatiful woman or a good girlfriend candidate. I also have negative mental background about wealth, back from my childhood.
So one interpretation could be that I she was initially interested in me socially, but finally only the sexual attraction remained. I'm undoubtely a very sexy guy, I get attraction signals every day from several of women, so I'm starting to think that she may not be interested in being my girlfriend, but she still wanted to fuck me.
2. I DEPLETED HER EGO
My seduction process is actually pretty solid these days. I feel like I have a high chance of bedding a woman who would go for a date with me. It's not always on the first date, but if I decide to continue it after the first date, it's usually pretty smooth and I have about 80-90% of success.
With this girl, my process was SMOOOOTH. I did pretty much every step correctly and there was zero resistance along the way.
Could this be that she regrets what she did?
3. SHE IS JUST BUSY AND SHE WILL GET BACK TO ME WHEN SHE HAS MORE TIME
This girl has plenty on her plate. She has a demanding job and plenty of after work activities so maybe she is just busy.
