Does any type of sexual behaviour constitute to a woman's bodycount, or just penetrative?

[EasyE]

Been reading the article of 'How Many Partners Has Your Girlfriend Had? Find Out Here' but I am curious if only penatrative sex counts when adding up the bodycount, or do you also add up the guys that have fingered her, she's given a handjob to and of course oral sex (she gave a blowjob)?

Women have a propensity to only count penetrative sex when they talk about bodycount, but if you're weighing up the odds of girlfriend/wife material should you also take into account the other types of sexual activities, and how much weight would you give to the other stuff that isn't penatrative?

Eg. My girlfriend has had sex with 4 men, but I found out she's been fingered by 3 other guys (when she was 16, before she lost her virginity at 17), gave them all handjobs and gave one oral sex. So technically speaking, she's been with 7 guys? And now 8 if you include me, which nearly doubles her original claimed bodycount.

 

[rockstar]

Different people count things differently: https://datepsychology.com/does-oral-sex-count-as-having-sex/

 

[MuST0BtA1NSkR1Lla]

Been reading the article of 'How Many Partners Has Your Girlfriend Had? Find Out Here' but I am curious if only penatrative sex counts when adding up the bodycount, or do you also add up the guys that have fingered her, she's given a handjob to and of course oral sex (she gave a blowjob)?

Women have a propensity to only count penetrative sex when they talk about bodycount, but if you're weighing up the odds of girlfriend/wife material should you also take into account the other types of sexual activities, and how much weight would you give to the other stuff that isn't penatrative?

Eg. My girlfriend has had sex with 4 men, but I found out she's been fingered by 3 other guys (when she was 16), gave them all handjobs and gave one oral sex. So technically speaking, she's been with 7 guys? And now 8 if you include me, which nearly doubles her original claimed bodycount.

I have abit of a Madonna Whore complex when it comes to dating women so I usually avoid the topic. A good way I use as an alternative is how many followers she has on Instagram and how high her snap score is.

Should be careful though with “Why” and “What benefit will this provide me” with this. The after effect of trying to fiqure out a chicks body count is usually some sort of shit fest that I would avoid.

If you are going and aiming for a marriage or a long term relationship sure I think it’s reasonable to know but if you are aiming for some sex then parting ways I would say it’s not beneficial to the lay.

 

[Skills]

what are you a jehova witness???? brah! I don't know what article your read or who wrote it, i would learn about the secret society or sex and maddona whore complex.... Totally autistic post....

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[EasyE]

what are you a jehova witness???? brah! I don't know what article your read or who wrote it, i would learn about the secret society or sex and maddona whore complex.... Totally autistic post....

Mate, I don't care about your youtube channel.

I know about the madonna whore complex. I didn't ask about that, I asked about bodycount.

 

[Chase]

@Skills,

I don't know what article your read or who wrote it

I wrote it. It's about partner count and profiling women as girlfriend candidates.

How Many Partners Has Your Girlfriend Had? Find Out Here

Here's a post that's sure to raise some ire. Ricardus and I were discussing men's tendency to want to sleep with sexually open women, but to date or settle down with or marry sexually conservative women - and how difficult it is actually figuring out how many partners women have actually had...

www.girlschase.com

Here's the chart from it:

@EasyE,

Been reading the article of 'How Many Partners Has Your Girlfriend Had? Find Out Here' but I am curious if only penatrative sex counts when adding up the bodycount, or do you also add up the guys that have fingered her, she's given a handjob to and of course oral sex (she gave a blowjob)?

Women have a propensity to only count penetrative sex when they talk about bodycount, but if you're weighing up the odds of girlfriend/wife material should you also take into account the other types of sexual activities, and how much weight would you give to the other stuff that isn't penatrative?

Eg. My girlfriend has had sex with 4 men, but I found out she's been fingered by 3 other guys (when she was 16, before she lost her virginity at 17), gave them all handjobs and gave one oral sex. So technically speaking, she's been with 7 guys? And now 8 if you include me, which nearly doubles her original claimed bodycount.

This stuff is all gray area inasmuch as how it affects women. It seems to have a bigger effect on some girls than others.

The best metric to go by IMO is to just see where she fits on the chart above.

You can probably come up with some metric where like her giving a guy a handie is 1/4 of a lover and her giving a guy a BJ is like 1/2 of a lover, but you're kind of splitting hairs.

The personality profiling is the better metric for figuring out what you're going to get from her as a girlfriend.

Chase

 

[Skills]

Mate, I don't care about your youtube channel.

I know about the madonna whore complex. I didn't ask about that, I asked about bodycount.

You didn't get it is not about my channel...I was trying to show you a bigger picture, but is ok... Do you....