Lately, I’ve been hearing from women who went cold on me in the past through text But as soon as I turn up the heat and call them out on their bullshit, they start texting me more, and the attraction even increases. I’ve sort of been throwing Hail Marys, saying exactly what I want to say, even being a little derogatory at times. I spent a long time playing it cool, following the usual advice, but I’ve realized a lot of these women take kindness for weakness. Now, all of a sudden, I’m getting faster replies, longer messages, and way more respect. It’s like the moment I stop holding back and start checking them, they actually like it. Maybe I’m just dealing with the wrong ones, but has anyone else noticed this?
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Post some examples of that let's see
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Not surprising. Women:
- Love drama
- Love guys who have self respect and won't put up with bs
- Love guys who can handle them and aren't afraid to put her in her place
The problem is that guys often will err on the side of being too nice and safe while they are trying to get her, and by the time they start expressing how they really feel, it comes out vicious and resentful, and she loses all attraction for him.