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KJ Francis

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This is often overlooked. How do you guys compliance test and get investment in simple ways?

Examples:
-handclasp (test if she leaves her hand)
-inspect jewelry (test allowing touch)
-early short move (test her following)

-palm read (maybe only sometimes)
-ask for napkin (not possible everywhere)
-talk about herself (great, but not ideal test)
-high five (not for every social situation)


I'm thinking like something in the first couple minutes of meeting that is easily replicable and quick

 

KJ Francis

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Very telling this got a quarter of the views that the compliments thread did. We can tell girls what we like about them but not get them working?

I'll be back to revisit both threads soon.


"Fellas, things done got too far gone. We got to let the girls know what they got to do for us."
 

James D

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One thing about compliance I've been thinking of lately is escalating the compliance intensity.

For instance, asking to see her bracelet isn't of the same intensity as asking her to change venues with you.

I remember someone on the forum made a post about it but I can't find it.

Just like we escalate touch, we should escalate compliance from smaller, innocent demands to bigger and bigger ones, the biggest of all being dick in pussy.

I don't think there's a proper post on it but it's worth exploring.

What's your view on that @KJ Francis ?
 

Marty

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remember someone on the forum made a post about it but I can't find it.

Just like we escalate touch, we should escalate compliance from smaller, innocent demands to bigger and bigger ones, the biggest of all being dick in pussy.

I don't think there's a proper post on it but it's worth exploring.
There’s at least one article on it on the main site: How to Build Simple Compliance Ladders.

I know you were asking about a forum post rather than an article; sorry if you already knew about the above and were looking for something else.
 

Will_V

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This is often overlooked. How do you guys compliance test and get investment in simple ways?

Examples:
-handclasp (test if she leaves her hand)
-inspect jewelry (test allowing touch)
-early short move (test her following)

-palm read (maybe only sometimes)
-ask for napkin (not possible everywhere)
-talk about herself (great, but not ideal test)
-high five (not for every social situation)


I'm thinking like something in the first couple minutes of meeting that is easily replicable and quick


I'll usually do the handclasp every time, and the jewellery/tattoo inspection if it presents itself.

Other ones I like to do are:
- Moving subtly in and out of her personal space as we're talking.
- Holding eye contact until she breaks downward (usually have to have a slight warm smile for it to work).
- Touching her as we're talking.
- Being doubtful/putting pressure on her when she says something about herself that's either too generic or has a vague sexual/submissiveness connotation - and then rewarding her with a little validation when she tries harder.
- Telling her to ask me something about myself (if she's not asking me any questions).

That's about it. I much prefer getting compliance in subtle ways like that, because you can do it much more often than more explicit stuff (like high fives) without it feeling strange.
 

KJ Francis

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One thing about compliance I've been thinking of lately is escalating the compliance intensity.

For instance, asking to see her bracelet isn't of the same intensity as asking her to change venues with you.

I remember someone on the forum made a post about it but I can't find it.

Just like we escalate touch, we should escalate compliance from smaller, innocent demands to bigger and bigger ones, the biggest of all being dick in pussy.

I don't think there's a proper post on it but it's worth exploring.

What's your view on that @KJ Francis ?
I completely agree. I think barring any flags that screen her out and once you've established the desire and are set on the goal, seduction is ramping up the compliance from meet to lay, diffusing resistance/friction to her submitting to your frame and accepting your lead. So yeah, I think escalating compliance intensity is really the whole essence of the game. All the comfort building is sort of in service of that - helping her be okay complying.

I'll usually do the handclasp every time, and the jewellery/tattoo inspection if it presents itself.

Other ones I like to do are:
- Moving subtly in and out of her personal space as we're talking.
- Holding eye contact until she breaks downward (usually have to have a slight warm smile for it to work).
- Touching her as we're talking.
- Being doubtful/putting pressure on her when she says something about herself that's either too generic or has a vague sexual/submissiveness connotation - and then rewarding her with a little validation when she tries harder.
- Telling her to ask me something about myself (if she's not asking me any questions).

That's about it. I much prefer getting compliance in subtle ways like that, because you can do it much more often than more explicit stuff (like high fives) without it feeling strange.
Yeah this is solid. It really does kind of come down to her being okay with your physical presence and progressing toward proximity and intimacy. The other stuff is really natural too.
 

Stark

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I look for something subtle about the girl just before approaching.

It might be a fancy pattern on her phone case, tattoo on palm , a specific style of keychain - you get the idea.

After the open, I elaborate on this and let her show me the prop. If it’s something she bought online, I would ask her to show me. This lets her show me a website on the phone while we stand next to each other in close proximity.

Easy to transition to touch and further along the compliance ladder from here
 
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