About two months ago I cut contact with an ex girlfriend of mine. We had dated for about 6 months and we had ended things and decided to stay friends. I still tried flirting with her occasionally.
This girl is beautiful, she is by far the prettiest girl I've ever gone out with. When we went out I was in a provider role so bad. We didn't get intimate and I didn't handle things well. We got in many fights after and soon split up. After some months we got back in touch and we had been talking since then.
About two months ago she hit me up asking me to hp her with an assignment in a subject I'm good at. I replied, "If only you wanted me for more than my assignments.lol" She answered with a text about what friends are for. I started thinking in my mind about doing this girls assignment while she hooks up with other dudes. I then told her I think we should no longer be friends so no one gets the wrong idea and cut contact. I deleted everything from her and her number.
About a week ago she called about thrice and when I answered I didn't know who it was. (There was a time I'd know its her just by looking at her number, I found this site trying to break up with her) We talked for a while and she asked for an explanation for my vanishing. I told her I was about to hit the dating pool and I didn't want to get distracted. I also told her I was hoping we would get back together before I disappeared.
She understood and asked me what we were at the moment "Are we back together, friends, acquaintances?"
I told her we shouldn't put a label on it. She was cool about it. We ended the phone call on good terms.
Ever since she got back in touch again and set up a date with me. She wanted to meet soon but I told her I was busy this week since I have to travel. We're meeting up next week on Thursday though.
This week I texted her on a public holiday wishing her a good one. She texted back and we wound up texting most of that day. It felt good at the time but I started feeling dangerously at old patterns. I opened girlschase and read articles on how to get a girlfriend or Should you ask a girl out.
I feel like my skills have improved since I ran into this site but I am nowhere near where I want to be with women. From the articles I gathered I should be meeting more women and not try to convince her to be my girlfriend. (I can't believe I was even thinking about this) I'd still like to get her to bed though. I once read an article about how girls don't go backwards on relationship stages and since she was my girlfriend before I'm not sure if she can go to friends with benefits.
I'm planning on telling her to come straight to my house and see how things go from there.
Does someone have better advice on what to do hete? I haven't seen many posts on what to do when a girl who had seemed to lose attraction starts chasing you hard.
The help would be appreciated.
This girl is beautiful, she is by far the prettiest girl I've ever gone out with. When we went out I was in a provider role so bad. We didn't get intimate and I didn't handle things well. We got in many fights after and soon split up. After some months we got back in touch and we had been talking since then.
About two months ago she hit me up asking me to hp her with an assignment in a subject I'm good at. I replied, "If only you wanted me for more than my assignments.lol" She answered with a text about what friends are for. I started thinking in my mind about doing this girls assignment while she hooks up with other dudes. I then told her I think we should no longer be friends so no one gets the wrong idea and cut contact. I deleted everything from her and her number.
About a week ago she called about thrice and when I answered I didn't know who it was. (There was a time I'd know its her just by looking at her number, I found this site trying to break up with her) We talked for a while and she asked for an explanation for my vanishing. I told her I was about to hit the dating pool and I didn't want to get distracted. I also told her I was hoping we would get back together before I disappeared.
She understood and asked me what we were at the moment "Are we back together, friends, acquaintances?"
I told her we shouldn't put a label on it. She was cool about it. We ended the phone call on good terms.
Ever since she got back in touch again and set up a date with me. She wanted to meet soon but I told her I was busy this week since I have to travel. We're meeting up next week on Thursday though.
This week I texted her on a public holiday wishing her a good one. She texted back and we wound up texting most of that day. It felt good at the time but I started feeling dangerously at old patterns. I opened girlschase and read articles on how to get a girlfriend or Should you ask a girl out.
I feel like my skills have improved since I ran into this site but I am nowhere near where I want to be with women. From the articles I gathered I should be meeting more women and not try to convince her to be my girlfriend. (I can't believe I was even thinking about this) I'd still like to get her to bed though. I once read an article about how girls don't go backwards on relationship stages and since she was my girlfriend before I'm not sure if she can go to friends with benefits.
I'm planning on telling her to come straight to my house and see how things go from there.
Does someone have better advice on what to do hete? I haven't seen many posts on what to do when a girl who had seemed to lose attraction starts chasing you hard.
The help would be appreciated.
