@SlayerCJ82 it is true the girls are very upfront. I had another girl on Feeld begging me to come fuck her, sending messages over several different nights like "I'm so horny" but she was pretty fat and desperate so I wasn't feeling it. I did not want to sacrifice my sleep and she was a late night party girl. I told her she needed to learn to fix her bed routine, brush her teeth, and drink more water LOL I think that turned her on. I would bet that was what she had been lacking from her father.
But I think most girls on there have a lot of sexual experience and are screening for guys who are experienced in the kink realm. They are not just looking to get laid. They are looking for kinky sex from someone who enjoys taming their brat side or degrading them.
I think the pool of people on there is pretty small compared to Tinder. I don't think it gets a lot of new daily signups and the girls stay on there a while. So even if you change your pictures, your profile has already been screened out by the user pool. You should delete the profile and make a new one. I don't know if the app detects this like Tinder though.
For pictures, I have abysmal ones and don't really care because I am working to force myself away from online and towards more daytime cold approach. I do not currently have any active online profiles anywhere. If you search the board for users POB and Skills, they have good tips for online. I remember there was a discussion on photos.
As for your other points, I would point you to articles by Ricardus. He claims to not be good looking, and I believe Chase considers him one of the most skilled pickup artists who has landed top models.
Especially in the kink realm, girls are looking for dominance. I have met girls who tell me the guys they go for there are not always good looking. This is one subset of girls who actually know what that word means (because Dom/sub is how people literally self identify there). I have heard time and again they have a hard time finding Doms because there just simply are not enough of them out there, but many girls identify as submissive and want to explore that side of themselves.
These articles may help you:
Lately, a friend of mine has been bringing up a recently acquired belief that looks are everything, and everything else is nothing, when it comes to meeting and picking up women.
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Do looks matter when attracting women? Sure, they help, but there are other, much more important factors when it comes to getting laid. Hey, guys. Today, I would like to bang an old drum – discussing the matter of looks and how it plays into seduction. This is a subject we have discussed to...
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Some guys say looks are all that (or most of what) matters when it comes attracting women. This article uses mountains of photographic evidence to bury that theory forever. Every time we talk about looks on Girls Chase, we get some guys in the comments or on the forum who get upset and tell us...
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My second ever lay was separating from a pro hockey player much taller and good looking than me. One time I put her into auto rejection by accident and she told me I was not that hot haha. But I had made her cum multiple times and she was sitting on a curb waiting for me.
I think you are going to have to address this issue as well since you are expressing being lucky just to have her fuck you.
A mighty new way to position yourself as a sexual prize a girl simply must have: communicate exciting sexual standards to her that also turn her on. Welcome back, gentlemen! Today I will share a cool verbal technique that will help make a girl perceive you as a more attractive lover (through...
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In the article on sticking points, a commenter asks: “Hey Chase, how would you go about framing the "I am the Prize" frame? Or would you think of this as more of a devoped mindset?” "I am the prize." Brings back memories. The first thing I ever read about pickup or seduction back in November...
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Relationships fail if you stop viewing yourself as a ‘prize’. Yet, maintain an image as the prize of the relationship and they can remain good indefinitely. Indulge me for a moment if you will. I want to tell you something, but it isn’t to brag. You see, I’m the best thing that could ever happen...
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Hey Francis
Thanks for the links and detailed reply buddy I appreciate it.
yeah re that Feeld girl - these are the only types I get matches with /interest from these days it’s depressing.
I’ve gone there but the guilt and LSE after etc not worth it just for a bang.
I Really need to photoshop out my wrinkles in my pics (lol) and get better backdrops and scenery locations etc to show some lifestyle and money/status. My pics are mostly all selfies (lol - the worst type of pic according to chicks ie Loner/no mates)
I’ve used OD so far notsomuch for bangs but moreso experiments and getting honest feedback from chicks I chat with. They have given me some valuable feedback - eg 1 told me to dye my greying beads and said I look 10 yrs old than my Bio age - which I did and got a few more matches per week.
Also got the insight on the number of messages a chick gets per day .. one very average chick sent me a S/S of her account that had 3500 in her inbox. She said it wasn’t so much about my profile per se , just managing her inbox was an admin nightmare and I got lost in the shuffle.
so yeah OD is tough . On RHP I notice most of the new cute “real” chicks very soon set their accounts to “not accepting any more messages at this time” - their inboxes must blow up something rediculous in just a week, maybe 1,000 offers of dick (and money)
Re FEELD also yes exactly re the ‘experienced Dom’ thing . I just BS and say I am .’oh yes I’m very experienced , sure’ They won’t know till we meet to bang anyway so ..
What they gonna do ? Say no to my dick at that point .. haha
Haven’t made it that far with a cute one yet anyway so it’s moot . I’ll just state I am Mr. experienced DomDaddy
with the ‘aftercare’ .. lol
Re the looks v personality
I’m early 40s now and very experienced. Have had a lot of success with MM and pickup in early 30s for a handful of years. Long LTR since then.
for me based on my exp there are still tiers and leagues to everything in life including dating and mating .
it’s “ Like Attracts Like” is the fundamental rule of nature in this domain and this is observable in the real world.
I saw a thread somewhere here with the title “ how to get access to the Super-Hotties” or some such. It made me lol a bit.
cos the reality is (imo) and the answer to that guys question is - sorry buddy , ya can’t - cos like attracts like . Not unless ya got bags and bags of that sweet cash and status .
don’t consider myself BP (defeatist ) I’d say I’m better Red and Black “pills” (Purple?)
If “pills” are even a thing anymore.
I’m a realist, I am working within a “tier” based on my height, looks, money and status.
‘game’ will help me get the girls at the top of that TIer .. and maybe the ones at the bottom or to the middle (maybe) of the next Tier.
That’s about it in reality for me afaics from my experience and observing ofher guys.
) I haven’t managed to get any quality myself yet,, but just realised my pics are awful. 
