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Brentwoodbam

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I hate trying to format these, so i'm just going to write. A few days ago, I had made a post about a girl who texted me with what seemed like chasing. Well, tonight we went out on our meet and decided we'd share a pizza at a little joint i'd never been to and thought would be fun. It started out a little uncomfortable and uneasy as most do, very friendly but with her visually aloof to a degree, with eye contact only about half the time. The conversation went all over the place, and she was loving every moment; Many laughs were shared, the eye contact got to a piercing level of perfection, she claimed that she didn't expect me to respond back to her original message, which turned out to be sent from her friend because she was too shy. All in all, we chilled and had amazing conversation until the joint closed, at which time I suggested a movie and she agreed, and unfortunately something for her came up and she was adamantly sorry and wanted to meet again very soon.

Overall, this date definitely told me a lot of things. One, I am definitely on the road to boyfriend status, which is alright at this point because i'm relatively new and she is a really keepable girl (mentioned that she was pretty conservative and didn't put out early, which is counterintuitive to what most of this site entails; But definitely not a virgin). With that being said, the date would have and should have ended with at least a kiss and I will see her again soon. All of this, while not seduction exactly, will definitely boost confidence and levels of comfort with women in general.

edit: Oh, forgot to mention that through all this I still played the alpha-male role well. I used a lot of the techniques of being a powerful man enstilled by chase and she even mentioned that she appreciated that I took charge and set up the date, instead of the guys she had previously been with who would do the old "what do you want to do tonight?"
 

Addicted2height

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she was loving every moment; Many laughs were shared, the eye contact got to a piercing level of perfection
I still played the alpha-male role well. I used a lot of the techniques of being a powerful man enstilled by chase and she even mentioned that she appreciated that I took charge and set up the date
Good stuff dude sounds like it was an enjoyable date for the two of you :)

My advice...

the date would have and should have ended with at least a kiss
Not sure of the exact circumstances but next time ask for a kiss good night, or better still just go for it and tell her you've been wanting to do that all night

If you want to set up another date check this out
https://www.girlschase.com/content/date-templates-minimize-confusion-maximize-returns

I'd suggest you cook her dinner then start a movie and start escalating.
You could even suggest that your disappointed about not getting a kiss goodnight so you should get one at the start of the next date.
I find thats a good way to get over the "when do i kiss her" problem

Keep us posted :)
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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