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lux7

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SHE
She’s a stylish good looking party girl who enjoys her freedom.
The kind with fake nail, fake eyelashes, salon tanning etc, not really my kind but anyway...

MY PLACE
We had spent no more than 1h together when the drinks where out and we went back to my place.

I knew she had to go for smt planned with her flatmate but I said “just for a beer” and she agreed.
She said she only had 20 minutes at the bar, which means no more than 15 mins once at my place.

I opened two beers, put some music and kept talking.
She asked for my phone number, and sat at my PC to add herself on FB.

Guess at least some interest was there.

"THE MOVE"
Didn’t want to let her go without at least getting a bit closer physically but go too well when I went for a kiss. She said “I’m not that kind of girl” (‘course she was :D ), and I went for a kiss on the cheek.

The moment was a bit awkward, but not too awkward.

We sat again on the couch, kept talking for some more minutes and when her flatmate texted her that she was waiting we got up and left.

GOODBYE
At the crossroad as we said goodbye I noticed she was standing there, so I went again for a kiss and this time was OK.

Just lips to lips, twice, I didn’t try to grope or make a big make out out of it.
Maybe I was trying to have a "cool, un-needy image" or I was simply OK with what had happened already, not sure.

She said again she would call and I said “yes, do that” and that it had been nice spending time with her.

This is all.



2 days ago I sent a single quick text to meet for a wine but nothing from her side.

Do you think I should have/could have done something differently or any good course of action from now?
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

PrettyDecent

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Re: FR - back to mine on limited time - Could have done bett

Hey lucifer7

Sounds like she dug you. Asking for a phone number's always a good sign.

I don't think I have enough experience on asking girls home to make the "authoritative statement" on the subject. However, I wouldn't have invited her home if she had only 15 minutes unless I was prepared to be very aggressive sexually. Like, go all in or don't invite her home would have been my mentality. That way you aren't in that 'unsure' stage where your continuously second-guessing yourself. But, I'd like to see what others have to say about the subject.

Cheers,
Jake
 

lux7

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Re: FR - back to mine on limited time - Could have done bett

PrettyDecent said:
Hey lucifer7

Sounds like she dug you. Asking for a phone number's always a good sign.

I don't think I have enough experience on asking girls home to make the "authoritative statement" on the subject. However, I wouldn't have invited her home if she had only 15 minutes unless I was prepared to be very aggressive sexually. Like, go all in or don't invite her home would have been my mentality. That way you aren't in that 'unsure' stage where your continuously second-guessing yourself. But, I'd like to see what others have to say about the subject.

Cheers,
Jake

Hey PrettyDecent, thanks for feedback, interesting point of view indeed, all or nothing at all might be sometimes better than half assed middle ways.

lucifer7 said:
but go too well when I went for a kiss.

Here I obviously meant "didn't go too well".
 
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