I don't remember exactly how the conversation went but I'll give you the background of the entire encounter.
I was at a latin dance concert and I had just finished dancing one heck of a fast salsa song with my instructor (female). The band had switched to a very slow song (bolero I think it's called) - the type that's played at high school proms where people just slow dance. Soon there were a whole lot more people up on the dance floor, young AND old, as this was a type of song almost anyone could relate to - in terms of knowing how to slow dance.
I found her standing a couple feet away from me, looking around like she was lost. She was draped in a long, flowing blue beach dress with some sort of floral pattern on it.
Bear in mind - I had never even seen this woman before, let alone know her name - which I never got (explained at the end)
I'm not the most creative type of guy but I figured I'd take a chance and actually let the music guide me more so than try to bust out a heck of a lot of moves. I walked up next to her but (unintentionally) fast enough to pre-open her - a brush/bump on her forearm - before turning to her with a sly smile and saying "You look just as lost as I am - shall we?"
Her - "Oh! (giggles) Sure! I'd love to!"
And away we went. I did everything possible to keep up the sexy vibe - but the confounding factor is that the atmosphere (a slow, romantic song, people slow dancing with each other) could have induced that feeling in her - so I don't know how much her response/result was of my own doing.
The recovered conversation is as follows - it was also extremely loud as it was a live band, a packed crowd, and an outdoor venue -
Me - "So where's your next adventure?"
Her - "I was on my way to a beer garden to meet some friends when I heard the music! I love to dance, and, well, here I am"
Me - "And here we are together...tell me, is a beer garden as heavenly as it sounds?"
Her - (garbled - but I think she was trying to tell me what a beer garden was)
Me - "I see then - I'll be making a note to check out the city's beer gardens later on."
Her - "Do you dance salsa? I saw you being all smooth out there."
Me - "Yes...and I'm flattered, thank you - "
Her - "Where did you learn?"
Me - "In Costa Rica - after I lost a bet - "
Her - "Oh, and what kind of trouble was this?"
Me - "It's kind of hard to explain, especially when I am dancing with such a captivating young woman as yourself."
Her - (laughs) "Why thank you - I don't get that a lot, especially since I don't wear makeup (she looked gorgeous without makeup) - so where are you from?"
Me - "A long ways off." (I actually moved from the East Coast to the Midwest for my medical residency position)
As far as the nonverbal stuff goes, I did use a lot of my own basic salsa moves (adapted for a slow song without a traditional salsa clave rhythm) and improvised a few to my own interpretation of the music. She did seem impressed ("wow, look at you!" "lots of fancy moves!", etc), but for most of the time where I felt like I couldn't interpret the music, I placed both of her hands around my neck and she kept them there for the whole time until I heard a chord of music I could bust a move on - she also didn't offer any resistance when I had my own hands on her waist/small of back. There were several moments where our foreheads or noses were touching and she was looking up back and forth between my eyes and my lips - it was so close that I didn't think I'd have to man-handle a kiss - rather I could have just slightly nodded and it'd be there. She let me dip her in the end but I think that's expected for this type of song and dance.
So the song had ended (Her - "I wish it could have gone on longer!") and I was a little torn between grabbing someone else to dance or seeing how far I could push these skills. I noticed her phone that she had tucked in her dress above her breasts was going off and I let her answer it - her friends at the beer garden were calling. I decided to run off and grab someone else to dance for the next song - the initial rationale was that she could have simply chosen not to answer it and continue the conversation if she were interested and I could even remotely pull off a number or even a lay after moving her. Heck I didn't even ask for her name because I didn't have that much of an overall plan in my head - my logistics were totally shot anyways - had to be home early and my place is an hour away.
So here's the questions I have for everyone:
1 - How much does the atmosphere confound or assist in your seduction efforts? While I know lounges are particularly helpful (sexual vibe) - this kind of romantic concert isn't always the case - at least I don't think so.
2 - Could I have just given her a sly look, then reached for the phone to either mute it or actually say "She'll call you back" - or would that have been pushing it? I remember an opening on the free articles mentioning literally just forcing the girl off her phone but I don't remember the details.
3 - So I didn't bring a condom - because I was never expecting this to happen - I could have just moved her if I got her off the phone, and then gotten her inside one of the nearby University buildings to verbally and physically escalate - the building was bound to be nearly empty except for a lone guard - and completed the whole seduction Metal Gear Solid style without getting caught - sound good to everyone?
Overall, how did I do?
I was at a latin dance concert and I had just finished dancing one heck of a fast salsa song with my instructor (female). The band had switched to a very slow song (bolero I think it's called) - the type that's played at high school proms where people just slow dance. Soon there were a whole lot more people up on the dance floor, young AND old, as this was a type of song almost anyone could relate to - in terms of knowing how to slow dance.
I found her standing a couple feet away from me, looking around like she was lost. She was draped in a long, flowing blue beach dress with some sort of floral pattern on it.
Bear in mind - I had never even seen this woman before, let alone know her name - which I never got (explained at the end)
I'm not the most creative type of guy but I figured I'd take a chance and actually let the music guide me more so than try to bust out a heck of a lot of moves. I walked up next to her but (unintentionally) fast enough to pre-open her - a brush/bump on her forearm - before turning to her with a sly smile and saying "You look just as lost as I am - shall we?"
Her - "Oh! (giggles) Sure! I'd love to!"
And away we went. I did everything possible to keep up the sexy vibe - but the confounding factor is that the atmosphere (a slow, romantic song, people slow dancing with each other) could have induced that feeling in her - so I don't know how much her response/result was of my own doing.
The recovered conversation is as follows - it was also extremely loud as it was a live band, a packed crowd, and an outdoor venue -
Me - "So where's your next adventure?"
Her - "I was on my way to a beer garden to meet some friends when I heard the music! I love to dance, and, well, here I am"
Me - "And here we are together...tell me, is a beer garden as heavenly as it sounds?"
Her - (garbled - but I think she was trying to tell me what a beer garden was)
Me - "I see then - I'll be making a note to check out the city's beer gardens later on."
Her - "Do you dance salsa? I saw you being all smooth out there."
Me - "Yes...and I'm flattered, thank you - "
Her - "Where did you learn?"
Me - "In Costa Rica - after I lost a bet - "
Her - "Oh, and what kind of trouble was this?"
Me - "It's kind of hard to explain, especially when I am dancing with such a captivating young woman as yourself."
Her - (laughs) "Why thank you - I don't get that a lot, especially since I don't wear makeup (she looked gorgeous without makeup) - so where are you from?"
Me - "A long ways off." (I actually moved from the East Coast to the Midwest for my medical residency position)
As far as the nonverbal stuff goes, I did use a lot of my own basic salsa moves (adapted for a slow song without a traditional salsa clave rhythm) and improvised a few to my own interpretation of the music. She did seem impressed ("wow, look at you!" "lots of fancy moves!", etc), but for most of the time where I felt like I couldn't interpret the music, I placed both of her hands around my neck and she kept them there for the whole time until I heard a chord of music I could bust a move on - she also didn't offer any resistance when I had my own hands on her waist/small of back. There were several moments where our foreheads or noses were touching and she was looking up back and forth between my eyes and my lips - it was so close that I didn't think I'd have to man-handle a kiss - rather I could have just slightly nodded and it'd be there. She let me dip her in the end but I think that's expected for this type of song and dance.
So the song had ended (Her - "I wish it could have gone on longer!") and I was a little torn between grabbing someone else to dance or seeing how far I could push these skills. I noticed her phone that she had tucked in her dress above her breasts was going off and I let her answer it - her friends at the beer garden were calling. I decided to run off and grab someone else to dance for the next song - the initial rationale was that she could have simply chosen not to answer it and continue the conversation if she were interested and I could even remotely pull off a number or even a lay after moving her. Heck I didn't even ask for her name because I didn't have that much of an overall plan in my head - my logistics were totally shot anyways - had to be home early and my place is an hour away.
So here's the questions I have for everyone:
1 - How much does the atmosphere confound or assist in your seduction efforts? While I know lounges are particularly helpful (sexual vibe) - this kind of romantic concert isn't always the case - at least I don't think so.
2 - Could I have just given her a sly look, then reached for the phone to either mute it or actually say "She'll call you back" - or would that have been pushing it? I remember an opening on the free articles mentioning literally just forcing the girl off her phone but I don't remember the details.
3 - So I didn't bring a condom - because I was never expecting this to happen - I could have just moved her if I got her off the phone, and then gotten her inside one of the nearby University buildings to verbally and physically escalate - the building was bound to be nearly empty except for a lone guard - and completed the whole seduction Metal Gear Solid style without getting caught - sound good to everyone?
Overall, how did I do?
