Paid Service FREE 1-1 coaching.

[COCPORN]

Hello.

I will do free 1-1 coaching to keep myself from getting absolutely brain damaged these days.

HMU. If you need previous reviews this is not the thing for you.

 

[Teevster]

This a good opportunity to talk with someone who has been into this for 10 years, without paying a dime. No brainer.

 

[Sky]

Hey I'm interested. Can you pm me a way to contact you privately? Thanks.

 

[Swift]

Offer still up?

 

[killerman]

Hello.

I will do free 1-1 coaching to keep myself from getting absolutely brain damaged these days.

HMU. If you need previous reviews this is not the thing for you.

I'm definitely up for it if you still are. Getting free stuff is always good but I would prefer to give you something in return though. Would you be up for giving me some coaching and in return I can give you some guitar lessons? Anything you want to learn. My forte is in Rock/Metal guitar but I can teach you other stuff instead/aswell if you want.

 

[Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem]

Hello.

I will do free 1-1 coaching to keep myself from getting absolutely brain damaged these days.

HMU. If you need previous reviews this is not the thing for you.

I am VERY interested, lmk if you still have any spots

 

[COCPORN]

This is no longer a thing. What is a thing, however, is that I am making not a series of posts, but I am talking to someone to have something larger produced (not a commercial thing for any friends in the community).

I am thinking video. I will share the transcripts or whatever if you want, and link to the videos when they are produced. I am leaning heavily into AI, but I think it is the time and place.

But I am actually looking for some help to look at previews of the manuscript(s) who are

1) Somewhat in command of the English language
2) ...Only so I can communicate the ideas into the system, and
3) Willing to do some simple field testing, which means
4) Able to do simple game but wanting to explode it

I am not gatekeeping, will be available for everyone here.

HMU in the chat if you want, I might just post jibberish there, but my heart is as pure as it is filthy.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

Looking forward to the video Cocporn.
What happened to the one on one Idea tho

y tho ?
Naww shame I was keen also

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

 

[COCPORN]

The reason why I can no longer provide this as a service is that my game is what most people who has the "tribal elder" moniker connected to their profile would call "bad".

I could argue that "even Magnus Carlsen has a coach" and that would somehow qualify me to coach another human being, but that rings false.

I struggle with alcohol (to the place where I can comfortably add the "-ism") to it, and it makes me volatile and often downright stupid.

If you want to hear me yap about anything and all things, just HMU in the chat or by message.

I asked by favorite waitress at a place where I go if she wanted to meet and she said "Tuesday" or "Thursday". I cannot teach any of you how to do this, not in a call. Because most of you will listen to things and not take action. The ones of you that take action shouldn't be here, because you already have all the information you need. You might actually be overloaded on information, making that an excuse to paralyze you.

This is a gentleman's club of rejects, mostly, me included. People who succeed with women don't need to talk about it all the time. We are crabs in a bucket. If you find someone who is willing to teach you how to spread your genetic material, often at the expense of his own, be wary. He is doing one of these things:

- Living vicariously (this is so common, I don't even know where to start, I want to elaborate)
- Charging you
- Just having fun and being in abundance (these are unicorns, I've met a couple)

So, given this information, I cannot coach at this point in my life. I am also not charging you, nor am I having fun. That being said, I don't mind living vicariously through you and if you find my advice helpful that is great.

 

[COCPORN]

I want, however, to elaborate on this one thing.

Daniel Presley, the sales genius, talks about something that is so important. The most important book you ever read. Is the one you write.

Writing forces you to test your ideas. Putting them out there forces them to be scrutinized. If you have an iota of integrity you will not put out something you cannot stand for. That is what the term "key-jockeying" _is_.

I try not to KJ. If you see me writing something it will be marked as a theory, or it is a retrospection and thoroughly analyzed. I know people who are so mentally strong they can conjure up an approach and then go field test it to see "if it works". This is a problem, because I can make anything work.

When we did day-game, I would ask my wing to go "get her number with this specific opener", and she would decline. Then he would ask me go do the same. Not with a different girl, with the same girl. And she would accept.

You can tell me it is about "technique". Perhaps it is. You can tell me it is about looks? Perhaps it is.

I am in a very privileged positions because I have been pretty and I have been ugly. I have been fat and I have been slender. I have been sober and I have been drunk. I have a lot of different axis that I have traveled, orthogonally.

I love to be entropy in person. I am 50 and I am still testing the limits of what the world allows.

And I love to write. So trying to put all this into something that is somewhat systematic is my journey. And that is what I want to invite you on.

I am not doing for you. I am doing it for me, primarily. But ultimately for us.

So join me, or not. I will share the result either way.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

I want, however, to elaborate on this one thing.

Daniel Presley, the sales genius, talks about something that is so important. The most important book you ever read. Is the one you write.

Writing forces you to test your ideas. Putting them out there forces them to be scrutinized. If you have an iota of integrity you will not put out something you cannot stand for. That is what the term "key-jockeying" _is_.

I try not to KJ. If you see me writing something it will be marked as a theory, or it is a retrospection and thoroughly analyzed. I know people who are so mentally strong they can conjure up an approach and then go field test it to see "if it works". This is a problem, because I can make anything work.

When we did day-game, I would ask my wing to go "get her number with this specific opener", and she would decline. Then he would ask me go do the same. Not with a different girl, with the same girl. And she would accept.

You can tell me it is about "technique". Perhaps it is. You can tell me it is about looks? Perhaps it is.

I am in a very privileged positions because I have been pretty and I have been ugly. I have been fat and I have been slender. I have been sober and I have been drunk. I have a lot of different axis that I have traveled, orthogonally.

I love to be entropy in person. I am 50 and I am still testing the limits of what the world allows.

And I love to write. So trying to put all this into something that is somewhat systematic is my journey. And that is what I want to invite you on.

I am not doing for you. I am doing it for me, primarily. But ultimately for us.

So join me, or not. I will share the result either way.

Hi Cocporn
Totally agree re the writing things down.
It’s great for me for Testing ideas as u say and crystallising things. Makes me think about what really was going on in the interaction / date from multiple angles.

I’m not much of a writer tho. So I just record audio clips on my iPhone after the date or lay or just when I have ideas about seduction in general.

it’s great as I can go back a week later or whenever and listen. Then analyse from a different perspective or emotional state. Very useful .

Re the “ism”

I got sober years ago. Maybe try AA or Recocery Dharma (better).

it’s a bit of a Players disease that one. The downside of pickup I’d call it.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

Also on this topic .
An old acquaintance/ wingman of mine did a long bootcamp/ training thing in the USA years back (in the heyday of PuA) . Like 2-3 weeks with some big name coaches of the time. He told me they were all basically alcoholic trainwrecks. Which I could believe living that life at the time.

RSD Jeffy talked about this also in a video course of his and was pretty honest about his life after getting “game”. A few others talked about it here and there across courses back in they day.

It’s a good watch the Jeffy one.

I took note of these 2 stories at the time and stopped drinking . That’s just my story and my 2cents.

seems to be a common pitfall of the Playa lifestyle.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

I liked also where u said u can ‘make anything work’.

A guy that is attractive /sexy to women can make pretty much anything work,
I believe this to be true as I’ve done this myself . The main issue guys have imo is they just don’t get attraction off the bat with a woman.

and ought to focus on this firstly.
Ie their presentation and persona.

 

[TwoNameGame]

A guy that is attractive /sexy to women can make pretty much anything work,

I got my first number by opening with "You're chilling!" My friends told me I deserved to be executed for daring to open with something so stupid.

It's all in the delivery and the energy of the situation.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

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I got my first number by opening with "You're chilling!" My friends told me I deserved to be executed for daring to open with something so stupid.

It's all in the delivery and the energy of the situation.

That’s a good one . For real.
Cos it’s different

 

[TwoNameGame]

That’s a good one . For real.
Cos it’s different

For context: We were on campus at the student center (a food court mixed with a living room). She was sitting with her legs on a couch taking up all the space because she was sketching.

She thought it was hilarious and it raised the energy a bit so we could start talking. I actually got it from this video.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

For context: We were on campus at the student center (a food court mixed with a living room). She was sitting with her legs on a couch taking up all the space because she was sketching.

She thought it was hilarious and it raised the energy a bit so we could start talking. I actually got it from this video.

Cool thanks for the link I’ll check it later
love the in field stuff

Interesting. I took “chilling” to be ice cold /scary/horror vibe lol. That’s why I thought twas different haha. It’s a good situational opener though. A simple observation is all it takes really.

I was in a busy/loud club one time and I saw this hot busy blonde cougar that looked like Stiflers Mom from American pie,
I was drunk so my opener was .,,, wait for it,,,

“ you look like Stiflers Mom”

worked a charm she bust up laughing and was from then on very keen,
I messed that one up tho.,just didn’t escalate and progress the pull.
She later got confused and bored cos I wasn’t making moves fast enough after that Great opener, my bad but I learned.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

Dis me in da club

…” u look like Stiflers mom”

 

[spear_kin]

1) Somewhat in command of the English language
2) ...Only so I can communicate the ideas into the system, and
3) Willing to do some simple field testing, which means
4) Able to do simple game but wanting to explode it

What do you want to be tested? I might be in to try