LR From Amsterdam With Love

[empath]

Great report, I really like the humor you suck girl in with at the opening, playful and mysterious but escalating the vibe.

Reading your reports have been good a experience for brining humor in my interactions too.

Curious what is your thought process in head you do run floor and ceilings in head.

I understood the concept but having a hard time applying it actually at dates.

Like do you conciously think its risky to pull this move wait ohh i call pull it now.

Would be great help you can share some insights.

 

[James D]

Curious what is your thought process in head you do run floor and ceilings in head.

I understood the concept but having a hard time applying it actually at dates.

Like do you conciously think its risky to pull this move wait ohh i call pull it now.

Bro could you rephrase pls

Happy to help you but I'm not sure what you mean.

You mean how do I think about raising floors and ceilings on dates?

 

[empath]

Bro could you rephrase pls

Happy to help you but I'm not sure what you mean.

You mean how do I think about raising floors and ceilings on dates?

Yeah exactly.

First is how do you guage where is the level of floor and ceilings with the girl.

Then how do you raise them, so you can escalte the sexual vibe and pull.

In your recent reports I think its more of vibe and non-verbal communication which helps you raise it, right?

Maybe if its not too much to ask just break a short portion of your interaction with lense of floor and ceilings.

 

[ChrisXKiss]

Loved this! In general I’ve been enjoying your reports a lot, especially all the improvisational parts.

The way you weave humour naturally in the interaction and the spontaneous actions you take are really creating a unique experience for the girl.

Calibration is huge in these, and something I am trying to grasp myself. I feel I have things that I want to propose or try with a girl, but I am usually missing the right timing, so seeing how the seduction can progress naturally is huge help.

Also your beginnings are inspiring, makes me think how much it is about a girl being open and how much about you making a great job with the opening.

Surely the first part plays a role but I think the second is even more vital, because you pace her initial friendly reaction very well and gradually pull her in to first get the date and then the rest.

If I may ask a question that is not very technical, what is your mindset and mood let’s say as you go about your day when these opportunities appear? I am asking because I feel a bunch of times I may not even in the mood to run a seduction even if I see a signal while going about my day. And I believe it is a big part to be in the right positive headspace in order to pull her into your world from the beginning and be effectively playful.

 

[gameboy]

Her: I don't want to have sex but if you want to put it in, I don't mind.

Hahhaha that line of hers made me laugh out loud! So typical

Love the tour of the red light district and the chat with the hooker haha

Thanks for a fun and inspiring LR!

 

[James D]

First is how do you guage where is the level of floor and ceilings with the girl.

Compliance.

If her compliance is low from the get go, I know I need to raise her floor. That's the easiest thing for me to do as I'm a connection/similarity guy. That's what I'll build to raise her floor.

your recent reports I think its more of vibe and non-verbal communication which helps you raise it, right?

For raising her floor, I'll do some deep diving and maybe some jokes.

Then how do you raise them, so you can escalte the sexual vibe and pull.

The concept of the ceiling is that you wanna escalate in such a way that you don't hit her ceiling, at which points her emotions crash.

No abrupt, big escalation moves. Whether you're touching her, talking about sex or any other arousal building tech, you wanna smoothly ease into it based on her receptivity levels.

Knowing when to do what is basically what calibration is.

That's hard to explain as I believe you can only learn it in the field.

 

[James D]

Maybe if its not too much to ask just break a short portion of your interaction with lense of floor and ceilings.

Also, check this report out:

LR - Physicist Touches The Seventh Sky

Howdy gents! This is it, my first lay from day game! Very hyped to write this report :) As I've mentioned in my FU report some time back, I took up Chase's "Approach 4 girls a day" challenge (just completed Day 21) as a way to transition from social circle in college, which got pretty messy...

www.skilledseducer.com

Without understanding the floors and ceilings method, I would have likely lost this lay.

 

[James D]

what is your mindset and mood let’s say as you go about your day when these opportunities appear? I am asking because I feel a bunch of times I may not even in the mood to run a seduction even if I see a signal while going about my day. And I believe it is a big part to be in the right positive headspace in order to pull her into your world from the beginning and be effectively playful.

That's a great question!

For me, it boils down to my overall goal when it comes to seduction.

We all have different things we want from learning this skill. Different dreams.

My dream was to pick up girls as I go about my day.

That was the definition of success for me.

Visualising that, for me, beats anything else.

I wanted was to be an "Anytime Anywhere Seducer" (not a real term, just came up with it)

This meant meeting, seducing and pulling girls anywhere, anytime.

While I'm not always in the headspace to meet a girl, when I do spot an opportunity, I'm reminded of that dream instantly.

I see it as an opportunity not only to score a lay, but to make that dream more and more concrete.

 

[James D]

Hahhaha that line of hers made me laugh out loud! So typical

Love the tour of the red light district and the chat with the hooker haha

Thanks for a fun and inspiring LR!

Hahaha cheers man!

 

[ChrisXKiss]

That's a great question!

For me, it boils down to my overall goal when it comes to seduction.

We all have different things we want from learning this skill. Different dreams.

My dream was to pick up girls as I go about my day.

That was the definition of success for me.

Visualising that, for me, beats anything else.

I wanted was to be an "Anytime Anywhere Seducer" (not a real term, just came up with it)

This meant meeting, seducing and pulling girls anywhere, anytime.

While I'm not always in the headspace to meet a girl, when I do spot an opportunity, I'm reminded of that dream instantly.

I see it as an opportunity not only to score a lay, but to make that dream more and more concrete.

Thanks for the response it really makes a lot of sense putting it like this.

The thing is I am also way more into cold approaching than anything else. I feel I do also want to be this “Anytime Anywhere Seducer”, I just probably want to be that only when I feel like, it if it makes sense.

Let’s say if I am particularly horny one day to go out and get a girl, or if I see a very hot/beautiful girl to also just go and be able to get her.

This does mess me up a bit, because I may go and approach girls I consider beautiful with no signals at all, but also pass on girls that look open on a day I don’t feel particularly horny, which leads to maybe no lay from the first ones if they are not available and obviously no lay from the second ones.

So I probably should try to change the way I view things, and realise that by capitalising on every opportunity my skill increases and it takes me one step closer to delivering when it matters to me.

Basically being reminded of that dream every time I am out and an opportunity arises.

Thanks a lot for this!

 

[James D]

feel I do also want to be this “Anytime Anywhere Seducer”, I just probably want to be that only when I feel like, it if it makes sense.

I get you man.

There's gonna be a phase of putting the reps in, of course.

When I did approach challenges, I hated most of the days. But it's necessary to build the skill.

Once you've got the skill, you have more freedom to tap in and out as you wish.

The Anytime Anywhere Seducer thing though does rely on some luck, I must say.

It's a lot on taking shots.

But with the right skill, you learn to take the right shots.

Things can get really fun then.

 

[iceberg slim]

Things like "hmmm well that's hard to say at a glance, altho she looks like she takes good care of herself, that's pretty cool"

I like that. Shows that you don't immediately start chomping on the bit to shag a girl at first glance. I do want to bang plenty of girls at first glance, but I can see how it's not ideal to reveal that.