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jackoftades819

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I'm going to be in college in a few weeks and I need some advice about getting laid. After reading several articles on this website, it seems like college game is different from regular day game. I'm leaning towards the "big man on campus" style but I don't want to get in trouble with being overly direct, especially with sexual harassment being an issue. I've always had issues with being seen as creepy and getting a girl's interest. So, how do I go about conveying my sexual interest without getting seen as creepy and how can I read her interest?
 

Bboy100

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Step 1: Join a community with a decent number of women. This can be a Greek system or some sort of on-campus club. Just make sure that this is a community you like. So for example, I would not join a frat if you don't think you would like the frat lifestyle.
Step 2: Socialize with everyone in said community. Don't think of it as "game". Think of it as you just going out, having fun, making new friends etc. If you've done step 1 correctly and you've picked a community which you enjoy, you're likely to run into a lot of like-minded people. So forming friendships should be easy.
Step 3: If you've integrated yourself into a community, its very natural that at least some of the girls there will be into you. Ask said girls out. Additionally, you're likely to form a relatively big social circle through which you will meet even more women.
Step 4: Keep going on dates with the girls you ask out till you have sex with them.

Cold approach and "game" is supplementary at best. Because unless your campus is very big (i.e. 30,000+ people) if you spend 4 yrs hitting on everything on campus with a vagina, you'll very quickly be labeled as "creepy guy who goes out to hit on girls". The only exception to this is at parties. At parties, you'll be mostly anonymous. So feel free to do whatever you want there. But even at parties, I would still adopt the mindset of just going out to have fun. It's a lot more effective than trying to "game" girls.<---This is the reason why if you notice, Hector's Articles on college game aren't that specific. They just give you general mindsets to take on. Cause if you worry about specifics, you'll just look like a robot trying to execute a program. And girls will sense this. Plus...if you think too much about specifically what to do/say, you'll end up stuck in your head.

P.S.
If you're going to try to pull girls from parties (which I recommend you do!), try to find a place to live which is near where most parties are at. Logistics in college can be better for you than they will be at any other time in your life. They can also be what makes or breaks your success. Case in point...if you live 15 mins away by car, there's pretty much no way you're pulling a girl home from a college party. Or if you do, its going to be 20x harder than normal. Whereas if the party is at your place, getting laid takes literally no work. All you have to do is find a girl drunk enough (within reason! FRAs are a huge thing on college campuses. Make sure she's cogent enough to know what she's doing), and lead her to your bedroom. No game required.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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