Getting flaked repeatedly !!

[Karea Ricardus D.]

Fair.

Yeah I mean direct game really comes from a frame of "I'm a highly desirable and very sexual male. I think you're also very desirable and sexy. So I think we should have a chat and see what happens next?"

It's very hard to pull that off if you're not currently in sexual abundance.

There is a second frame you can come from in direct game, and that is: "I'm a bit of a beta male, BUT BUT BUT hear me out, I'm a really good guy and if you just talked to me you'd really like me, I promise, and I think you're SO cute..."

That works too but it's obviously the boy-friend track. Lay on the third date, and she gets super pissed when she finds out you don't actually want a GF.

(Those are frames, not words you would actually say obviously)

 

[Spyce D]

Fair.

Yeah I mean direct game really comes from a frame of "I'm a highly desirable and very sexual male. I think you're also very desirable and sexy. So I think we should have a chat and see what happens next?"

It's very hard to pull that off if you're not currently in sexual abundance.

There is a second frame you can come from in direct game, and that is: "I'm a bit of a beta male, BUT BUT BUT hear me out, I'm a really good guy and if you just talked to me you'd really like me, I promise, and I think you're SO cute..."

That works too but it's obviously the boy-friend track. Lay on the third date, and she gets super pissed when she finds out you don't actually want a GF.

(Those are frames, not words you would actually say obviously)

Currently , my mental frame is ' I am under the process of becoming a sexy high value man ' .

That's how I see myself rn .

Btw , I am willing to ' date down' to gain experience .

I dont expect magical results to come to me without putting in the effort .

 

[Skills]

Today , I again insta closed a chick ( even though I tried to number close her first ) . And she flaked .

It's become a repeating pattern now , I have got like 7-8 instas + 1 number till now and only 1 converted into date .

I know that even though it's a small sample space , but it just feels weird and a bit demotivating sometimes but it actually motivates me to become better at game . You know how It feels like.



What should I do to not get flaked ? Maybe it's due to me not having a tight game ,


And I am also trying to get numbers , let's see if I can make it happen .

notice a pattern, you go for insta..... or when you try to go for number they give you insta...... Field test my style of getting numbers...

Say let me give you my number..... as you grab her phone call your number..... then save your number with your nick name.... text your self from your number or even her number, who is that good looking guy you are talking to.. or text your name or from her phone her name

avoid insta or social media...

Calls & Texts - Best way to get a phone number and Ice breaker first texts....

Ok guys, so i have been helping a lot of the guys, by me doing so i get to see what they do wrong and if the things that work for me consistently work for them, so after enough sampling I see were the problem are and how to improve odds which is the name of the game.... So most normal dudes...

www.skilledseducer.com

 

[Spyce D]

out of 10 direct approaches, how many numbers do you get? if 3-4 or more you're ready for direct.

This month , I did like 5-6 approaches where I was able to get a convo . Minimum of 1 minute and maximum of 28 mins.
( Cuz I didn't eject )

And got like 2 numbers .

Cuz I was less focused on banter . And more focused on being grounded .

Or it could be just I being lucky

 

[Police dog]

It's very hard to pull that off if you're not currently in sexual abundance.

You actually don’t have to. Well, it depends on your goals and how you approach seduction in your life. For me for example, I don’t have a goal to sleep with as many women as possible. And I don’t go for ons. So if I see a girl that is my type instead of thinking about abundance, I think which new experiences I can introduce in her life. I don’t even have sex in mind at that moment, I think about the big picture, if you have somewhat interesting life and strategic about who you approach, you are good to go. You don’t have to be some celebrity, club promoter, know tons of people, etc. Just think how you can enrich your life and how those things will make you attractive to the type of girls you want to be with. For example, my type is nerdy shy girls, mostly international/immigrant college students. So it’s not that hard to stand out. I don’t know about the OP situation but hope I was able to explain the gist.

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

I like that approach Police Dog. Honestly it's probably more healthy than what we've been doing. I'm rethinking things at the moment.