Getting the poison out

[Smiling_Stray]

Four years, it's been four years since I stumbled upon Girls Chase. I'm in my second to last year of high school, and already I've had more relationships than either my parents and have more stories to tell of all the insanity I've managed to get myself into than most people I've met, which tends to be helpful when brainstorming ideas for my writing. However, there's a con to every pro.

Remember how I said I've had more relationships than either my parents? I wasn't exaggerating, I hit double digits a while ago! With that being said, you'd think I've gotten my poison out plenty of times in the sack. Well, you'd be horribly mistaken (Not once! There it is, dirty little secret's out). Most girls do still screen me as experienced from what I've heard, but that's mainly because I am... with kissing.

I know kissing is the mating ritual of human beings and all but every. Single. Time. Something comes up. Either, her parents are pulling in the driveway or we can't get anywhere away from the crowd since we're locked in. Every time, it's my personal hell.

At this point, one could say it's just bad timing. Not much to give advice to, but if anyone out there has even a modicum of advice, you sir, would be an all star.

Then again, maybe if I just keep getting busy living then maybe I'll finally get the poison out. After all, I wasn't really aiming for sex too much until just this past year and a half. It just really sucks (still having the V-card, in case you haven't caught that by now) because I know it's something everybody does and most people think I've been there, done that (I think even my family!) when really I haven't. The worst part is, I know how to get there! It's like holding the keys to a house where this massive party is at and not being allowed in because you haven't partied hard enough before. It sucks worse than the dog shitting the bed.

 

[Regal Tiger]

So, I'm not 100% sure what you're asking here... if it's about keeping something from interrupting you then you'll have to handle your logistics. Not a lot anyone can help you with there, but if it's just about how to lose your virginity then the only advice I can give you is what I did which might not work for everyone:

Basically, I propositioned nearly every girl I went on a date with. Sometimes it was clumsy and blatantly obvious like, you're sexy, come home with me. Or let's fuck. Other times it was with some type of excuse like, I've gotta show you this cool video/picture or let's watch a movie or what ever.

When getting women into my apartment at the time my process was equally as clumsy: wait a few minutes so that people can get comfortable. Cuddle up. Start kissing. Just take it as far as I can before getting shut down. If she shuts down then that's a not yet signal (if she stays in there with me, if she asks to leave then I'd always immediately take them back to wherever they had to go). So if they're still there then they are still giving me the opportunity to seduce them. So wait a few minutes and try again. Always with a smile no matter what happened.

Hell, there was one girl in particular that I thought there wasn't a chance in hell she'd come back to my apartment. But she did. But then there's no way she would hook up with me, she's just not into me and I'm not getting any signals (even looking back it seemed like she wasn't really into me but then we kept seeing each other for a few months afterwards).

So yea, that's my advice. Just proposition every girl you're ever on a date with until it happens and you gain experience to make the process smoother. Even though there were so, so many failures it eventually worked out for me.


Should also note that I was doing online game during this time so I didn't face any chance of having it come back on me social circle wise.

Oh! And lastly; don't kiss women until you're ready to escalate to sex. Chase has an article that goes over a little bit of the why:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-k ... t-go-great

But the basics is because it removes the mystery and the sexual tension unless you do it right. I noticed improvement when I stopped kissing women until they were in my apartment (still remember to touch though)