Girl has a hot body, but she wears a mask, can't decide if I want her.

[ulrich]

I don't see the connection between not wanting to hurt women and experience.

And I don't fear ending up in an unintended date because I won't invite somebody I'm not interested in no matter what.

Girls are not as fragile as you think and if you are skilled enough you know you can let them down gently.

It’s usually the guys who don’t have much experience the ones who carry such fear.

 

[Professor Oak]

Girls are not as fragile as you think and if you are skilled enough you know you can let them down gently.

It’s usually the guys who don’t have much experience the ones who carry such fear.

I see. Could you tell me how do I let them down gently please?

Whatever the case, the point is even if I get her number, it doesn't fix the problem of not seeing her face and therefore the problem of not knowing if I want to fuck her.

 

[Will_V]

I see. Could you tell me how do I let them down gently please?

Whatever the case, the point is even if I get her number, it doesn't fix the problem of not seeing her face and therefore the problem of not knowing if I want to fuck her.

Now I know why you're called the Professor.

To let her down gently, just don't get her number and wish her a good - no, fantastic! - day and walk off. Or don't message her when you get the number. Believe me, she's not going to throw herself off a bridge because some random stranger she doesn't even know didn't call her.

You don't have to worry about what side of the mask she thinks you want to see. Just tell her this (after a bit of banter)

"Pull down your mask so I can get a look atcha!" <smiling>

done.

 

[topcat]

 

[Professor Oak]

Now I know why you're called the Professor.

To let her down gently, just don't get her number and wish her a good - no, fantastic! - day and walk off. Or don't message her when you get the number. Believe me, she's not going to throw herself off a bridge because some random stranger she doesn't even know didn't call her.

You don't have to worry about what side of the mask she thinks you want to see. Just tell her this (after a bit of banter)

"Pull down your mask so I can get a look atcha!" <smiling>

done.

Me: So for how long have you been selling phones?
Her: 1 year
Me: Wow, so you have to be pretty good at it.
Her: I'm ok
Him: I'm ok as in I'm gonna walk out of the store with a phone I don't need and won't use?
Her: (says something)
Me: "Pull down your mask so I can get a look atcha!" <smiling>

Isn't this out of nowhere and awkward?

 

[Zoro]

But I do not know if I'm interested in her or not in the first place, that's the issue.

There is a very effective way (and perhaps the only way) to solving this issue. Approach her and you will find out if you like her, you can even ask her to take her mask down for a moment so you can see her face.

 

[Will_V]

Me: So for how long have you been selling phones?
Her: 1 year
Me: Wow, so you have to be pretty good at it.
Her: I'm ok
Him: I'm ok as in I'm gonna walk out of the store with a phone I don't need and won't use?
Her: (says something)
Me: "Pull down your mask so I can get a look atcha!" <smiling>

Isn't this out of nowhere and awkward?

Nope, it's not awkward.

Just do it when she's smiling and there's eye contact, and she'll understand that you want to appreciate her gorgeous smile.

 

[ulrich]

I see. Could you tell me how do I let them down gently please?

Just let the conversation die naturally and don’t ask for her phone.
“It was nice chatting with you, see you around”

Unless you approached in a direct uncalibrated way (“You’re so hot”), there should be no issue parting ways.

 

[Professor Oak]

Just let the conversation die naturally and don’t ask for her phone.
“It was nice chatting with you, see you around”

Unless you approached in a direct uncalibrated way (“You’re so hot”), there should be no issue parting ways.

I was walking through there and I saw you here and I must have come here to let you know that you have the most beautiful eyes I saw this week.

Is that too direct or uncalibrated?

 

[Will_V]

I was walking through there and I saw you here and I must have come here to let you know that you have the most beautiful eyes I saw this week.

Is that too direct or uncalibrated?

Lol you managed to create a line that is too direct and too indirect simultaneously, I congratulate you!

 

[Professor Oak]

Lol you managed to create a line that is too direct and too indirect simultaneously, I congratulate you!

Is that line good enough for what uriel suggested or not?

 

[ulrich]

Is that line good enough for what uriel suggested or not?

It’s a good line in general but take down two notches for this case.

Instead of beautiful say interesting.
Then asks if she is a foreigner or if she has siblings with the same eyes (basically stay out of “I like you sexually” territory).
Once she shows her face you can say a Whoa!! and turn the conversation more direct if you like her face or just let the interaction die if you don’t.

 

[Alpha13SC]

Lots of mental masturbation on your part @Professor Oak

You don’t know if your interested enough to approach but you are interested enough to make a forum post about her…?

Then you say you don’t have AA? Lol, get out of here.

All of this would be solved if you just did what normal people do and go be social. Go talk to her.

This reminds of me when I m talking to some friends saying "Just invite her to a date, dude, wtf. Go talk to her." Like it doesn't even matter if he close or not, the experience is more important.

I don't see the connection between not wanting to hurt women and experience.

And I don't fear ending up in an unintended date because I won't invite somebody I'm not interested in no matter what.

They're not so fragile as you think. The chances are she might be thinking the same for you. Not wanting to hurt you, if she ll reject you.

It's like the situation where guys think women want relationship so they don't date her because they don't want to hurt her in the long term. Does a bad boy thinks like that? Hell no. He do whatever he wants.

You're feeling bad for her and think you may do actions from mercy. Well, I can say you will do that in the future. With this girl, or others. And then you'll see this type of actions might came across as good, but in the end, they ll be bad because you're not true to yourself and to her. She can handle it, a rejection. As long as you're not insulting or other shit coming from frustration, being authentic does nothing but good in relation with women(calibrated ofc).

All I can say is: too many words with us, too few words with her.