Lots of mental masturbation on your part
@Professor Oak
You don’t know if your interested enough to approach but you are interested enough to make a forum post about her…?
Then you say you don’t have AA? Lol, get out of here.
All of this would be solved if you just did what normal people do and go be social. Go talk to her.
This reminds of me when I m talking to some friends saying "Just invite her to a date, dude, wtf. Go talk to her." Like it doesn't even matter if he close or not, the experience is more important.
I don't see the connection between not wanting to hurt women and experience.
And I don't fear ending up in an unintended date because I won't invite somebody I'm not interested in no matter what.
They're not so fragile as you think. The chances are she might be thinking the same for you. Not wanting to hurt you, if she ll reject you.
It's like the situation where guys think women want relationship so they don't date her because they don't want to hurt her in the long term. Does a bad boy thinks like that? Hell no. He do whatever he wants.
You're feeling bad for her and think you may do actions from mercy. Well, I can say you will do that in the future. With this girl, or others. And then you'll see this type of actions might came across as good, but in the end, they ll be bad because you're not true to yourself and to her. She can handle it, a rejection. As long as you're not insulting or other shit coming from frustration, being authentic does nothing but good in relation with women(calibrated ofc).
All I can say is: too many words with us, too few words with her.