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Girl not investing, seems really bored, how to tackle?

jackoftades819

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A few times with matches on Tinder, they'll respond to my opener (usually a compliment) with a "thanks" and then I ask he what she's passionate about. Then she responds with something super vague or something that doesn't advance the conversation ("tacos"). How do I respond to girls acting this online and potentially in person?
 

Ambiance

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Hey Jackoftades,

So Tinder is a mixed bag that is really reliant on your pictures. Depending on the girl and her mood atm, it can be very hard to get her investing. I'd drop asking what she is passionate about. Your goal is to get her to meet you on a whim, not get her super comfortable. Way too many guys are doing the exact same thing. Try my formula ;)

Opener: Is there any way you won't object to not going to bed with me?
(most girls think this is hilarious)
THEN, if her response is anything other than an outright refusal/dismissal, ask her what she is doing tonight. If she is busy get her number, and send her an icebreaker text telling her you'll hit her up sometime. If she is free, have her come over, or have her meet you at a place close by if she isn't comfortable with that yet

Cheers

A
 

Raqimus

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I really dig your opener Ambiance, totally going to steal :)

To OP, don't try to get deep to fast, start out light heartd and humorous and reward her investment with deepness and sillyness. Then again I have yet to succeed on tinder, I have had a couple leads and a girl that's down that I met on tinder, I tried what I said and it works so far, it's weeded out a few girls. If they don't really invest I move on. Also my pictures suck.
 
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