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^ When i got to this mentality with every girl i got mild onitis with... They all came back lol.... Is hard to explain...
When you start dating you are this cool dude, with all this cool traits the girls get initially attracted to...
What happens is that we men start switching to romantic let me keep her mode (men are really the true romantics, women are really the players)
Girls for some reason sense this, start totally losing the attraction (that when they start shit testing, throwing tamtrums and the likes)... At this points most guys try to double down and "figure out how to solve the problem to bring back that smile and make them happy" which is exactly what you are trying to do solve her "unhappiness problem"..... Which in turn pushes them even more away...
Unfortunately the way stuff actually works is so really weird, the right move is "give them space" and yes in your mind maybe "try to move on", if is legit she will sense this and come back...
Women have a spider man sense for neediness will punish you for it, reward your for the opposite...
