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- Jan 24, 2016
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I've had girls on my bed who wanted to have sex and I just could not make any move.
I think it's because the steps are unkown to me, I kind of get trapped in the middle, I am not able to see the entire process and just do nothing, as if didn't knew wich way is forward and I paralyze not wanting to go backwards in an attempt to advance.
Also I get disconnected from my body, maybe because of the uncertainity or maybe it's the other way around.
The girls that come with me are aquiantances, haven't managed to bring a girl met via approach home. Sometimes it seems to me that I'm doing worse.
Nothing happens with girls that show fairly clear signs, I get in my head and become blind, is there a way to train my presence or do I need to fail that bad?
Do I just throw myself to girls just for the experience, even if I'm quite sure it's a miscalibration from my part?
I think it's because the steps are unkown to me, I kind of get trapped in the middle, I am not able to see the entire process and just do nothing, as if didn't knew wich way is forward and I paralyze not wanting to go backwards in an attempt to advance.
Also I get disconnected from my body, maybe because of the uncertainity or maybe it's the other way around.
The girls that come with me are aquiantances, haven't managed to bring a girl met via approach home. Sometimes it seems to me that I'm doing worse.
Nothing happens with girls that show fairly clear signs, I get in my head and become blind, is there a way to train my presence or do I need to fail that bad?
Do I just throw myself to girls just for the experience, even if I'm quite sure it's a miscalibration from my part?
