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So i met this girl through her sister. I was riding my bike when i saw her sister and approached. We had a very good conversation. Let's call her Maria. Maria then told me that she had a boyfriend and had just become pregnant, but that she had a sister that was younger than herself and single. Let's call this girl Sophie. We have a really good conversation and Maria sells Sophie really well, saying she had a better body and inherited the best genes of the two XD and she shows me pictures of her and messages her on facebook telling her to accept my friend request. Fast forward i go on a date with this Sophie girl. She's pretty hot. Long fair hair and a nice body. 8/10 i would say. I invited her straight to my place for dinner and then she suggested after dinner we go for a walk. So we do. We walk around, we kiss, i spank her ass one time teasingly and she held my arm on the way back. I kiss her goodbye and she rides off on her bike. I walk inside.
We schedule new date for Friday. Our date was Tuesday. This girl was 26 and i had told her sister that i was 24 on my approach. I did it to circumvent social conditioning regarding age, because in reality i'm 20. Anyways Thursday she messages me "I don't think your dad knows how old you are
" So i check his profile out and it says in his profile i am 19 years old. I message back "You're right, i'm 20, not 19
". Then she goes on about how i lied to her and stuff and she doesn't trust me and sends me a screenshot of her conversation with her friend. Get this. Her girl friend had been stalking my family members through on facebook and had seen on my dad's and Sister's profile old birthday posts and calculated it to me being 20, instead of 24. Ain't that fucked up? It was her friend who had done the digging on me, so fucking weird right?
Creepy stuff, but i don't really care if i'm honest, and i also didn't apologize to her. I simply told her my reason for lying about my age, that is, to circumvent judgements regarding younger age so that we could simply get to know eachother with an open mind and without barriers. She stuck to her view of me as having lied to her and all. Eventually i got tired of trying to convince her. It felt like she was just stroking her ego, like, wanting me to suck up to her and beg her to take me back. I would have none of it. Threw the ball in her court.
Said to her "What happened, happened. I understand why it bothers you, though that wasn't my intention. I want to give it another shot. It was nice to meet you Sophie. If you wanna meet again, you know where to find me."
What are your thoughts on this? Should you lie about your age to circumvent social conditioning and girls' fear of reputation issues by dating a younger/older guy? The girl told me she didn't care that i was younger, but that it's a deal breaker that i lied to her. That's easy to say now. I feel like i will lose more dates by saying my real age with these girls, than i will gain. I don't bring it up myself, but if an older girl asks how old i am, it obviously means it's important to her, so no points gained by saying the truth here.
So i met this girl through her sister. I was riding my bike when i saw her sister and approached. We had a very good conversation. Let's call her Maria. Maria then told me that she had a boyfriend and had just become pregnant, but that she had a sister that was younger than herself and single. Let's call this girl Sophie. We have a really good conversation and Maria sells Sophie really well, saying she had a better body and inherited the best genes of the two XD and she shows me pictures of her and messages her on facebook telling her to accept my friend request. Fast forward i go on a date with this Sophie girl. She's pretty hot. Long fair hair and a nice body. 8/10 i would say. I invited her straight to my place for dinner and then she suggested after dinner we go for a walk. So we do. We walk around, we kiss, i spank her ass one time teasingly and she held my arm on the way back. I kiss her goodbye and she rides off on her bike. I walk inside.
We schedule new date for Friday. Our date was Tuesday. This girl was 26 and i had told her sister that i was 24 on my approach. I did it to circumvent social conditioning regarding age, because in reality i'm 20. Anyways Thursday she messages me "I don't think your dad knows how old you are
Creepy stuff, but i don't really care if i'm honest, and i also didn't apologize to her. I simply told her my reason for lying about my age, that is, to circumvent judgements regarding younger age so that we could simply get to know eachother with an open mind and without barriers. She stuck to her view of me as having lied to her and all. Eventually i got tired of trying to convince her. It felt like she was just stroking her ego, like, wanting me to suck up to her and beg her to take me back. I would have none of it. Threw the ball in her court.
Said to her "What happened, happened. I understand why it bothers you, though that wasn't my intention. I want to give it another shot. It was nice to meet you Sophie. If you wanna meet again, you know where to find me."
What are your thoughts on this? Should you lie about your age to circumvent social conditioning and girls' fear of reputation issues by dating a younger/older guy? The girl told me she didn't care that i was younger, but that it's a deal breaker that i lied to her. That's easy to say now. I feel like i will lose more dates by saying my real age with these girls, than i will gain. I don't bring it up myself, but if an older girl asks how old i am, it obviously means it's important to her, so no points gained by saying the truth here.