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Gym receptionist - short window to make something happen

Rodrigo

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So there's this girl that works at the gym during mornings and i kinda wanted to compliment her and ask her out just for the sake of challenging myself and doing it (she isn't that hot, but she's cute). I go there only three times a week. I've seen her for like a month and a few days (december to january and about a week ago until today) but i've never talked with her besides greeting and exchanging one word or another about my gym membership. But i guess i fear a little the awkward vibe that would be in the air afterwards (in case she rejected me) everytime i went to the gym during monrnings and passed through her... otherwise i would've done it already

i really don't care about social repercussions or possible gossips that could happen there, since i usually don't talk much with people there, i just go there, do my thing in 20-30 minutes and go back to study. But she seems to somewhat like me, since i've noticed her leaning over me when i asked about my gym membershing, among other little signs... so next time when no one's around, how could i make this approach and ask her out being as brief as possible (since people could come up anytime), while increasing my chances of getting a yes as much as possible in this scenario?! Thank you
 

readjusting

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hey Rodringo,

A while ago I spotted a cute librarian. I asked her: "Are you single?"
She just laughed: "Yes, but no."
I had to interact with her sometimes because I needed to use the school's laptop. No awkward vibe. She just had a funny look each time she saw me, but that was it.

Now, even if you got rejected, at least it made your life and her life less boring. You had a good story to tell ("Bro, I hit on the librarian and ..."). She got some memorable experience.
Another librarian in a different library, at the first time I met her, she had a flirty vibe to me. But after a while she went cold. Why? Because I was no different than other guys going to the library.
So when you ask her out, next time you meet her, she will at least treat you different from other guys.
 
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