Hi beginner here
I have asperger syndrome. for those of you who don't know it's a form of autism that affects your social skills. (I never use that as an excuse on why I never get girls because I've seen plenty of people with Asperger's get girls). also for some of you who might be curious I'm a very high-functioning.
I'm with a a company that helps people with disabilities like me. they help you try to be more independent. it's called community hab. it's where they sent a person to help you with things that you think you need to improve on to live more independent.
the first person they send was a middle-aged unattractive woman. we worked on a few things no biggie. that was until about a month ago she told me that another person will be shallowing her. I said I'm okay with that. the person that was shallowing her was this very cute, kinda gothic chick. it was kind of funny because when they first walked through the door I was in my t-shirt and shorts
what we did for a first meeting was just basically go to the library. talked about what kind of book I wanted to check that out and that was it. I was kind of interested then. however I overheard about her having a girlfriend. so that day I didn't think nothing of it.
then I was told on the phone that along with the middle aged woman I'll be working with the goth chick as well. in two separate days. so on a second meeting. she came by herself. ask if it was okay to take her shoes off. I said I didn't care. (note she takes her shoes off every time she comes over). she saw that I have a Harry Potter collection and that she was a huge fan. told her that she can borrow it if she wants. after we did our little tasks for the day. she asked me what I want to do next saying we have plenty of time. so she said we can work on my monthly budget. so we go up to my apartment and we both sit on the couch. as we are a talkin I just get extremely close and she is not bothered by it whatsoever. in fact I say she kind of enjoyed it. afterwards we shake hands and she left.
at this point I was a she might be interested in me. but I had to be sure because I don't want to come off as unprofessional or inappropriate so I thought the next time I'll do little light flirting see what happens.
so on our second meeting. I said little stuff like "I'm always going to need your help" or "you are amazing cents of style". she made a few sexual innuendo jokes like when she was messing with a radio say something like "I like touching that thing in the right spot". later that afternoon we sat her the car and I figured to tell her a little about myself my trials and tribulations but nothing too deep. then she dropped me home and that was that.
before I third meeting I text about something I needed from her. a right to an interview but she told me she couldn't get there in time. then we joke around of over text. For our third meeting. I decided to deep dive more. told me she likes to read self-motivation books. Before our day was over she asked once again what else do I want to do but this time she says "it's your time you can do the last me however you want". then I said "I really like the sound of that" afterwards we hugged (first we did that) and that was it.
I knew after this that I had to make a move and see what happens. she said she'll see me in 2 weeks for next meeting. reason being because she was going to visit Florida with her girlfriend.
before or fourth meeting she text me. she was going to return my Harry Potter collection. also she got a new job and won't be work with me anymore. she she likes working with me and I said I like working with her. she said she's coming over on her off time to deliver my Harry Potter collection even though we have one or two meetings left before she leaves for the new job and could have give it to me then. I told my brother this. he thought she was just simply being nice and I thought different (simply because I know he has no game and I've been on the field way more times then he has ever had). so I figured I'm just going to try to make my move the worst she can do is say no.
so today she comes out and stayed at the door doesn't take her shoes off. said she could hug because she was sick (she text me that the night before). so we talked a little bit. then I said okay I'm willing to take the risk and we hugged a lot. We had an emotional goodbye then she left.
in hindsight it might have been that little last minute resistance and if I would have pushed a little bit maybe something would have happened. or maybe she was simply being nice like my brother said. Even so at the same time this is literally like that 6 time this has happened to me. 4 in these last four months alone. This one so far was the closest I ever been.
I'm little bit emotional now. because it feels like every time I learn one new thing there's like five new things I need to learn in game. and I know the learning curve is is big especially when it comes to me but I really need to learn this. you have to trust me I am so close to sleeping with gorgeous women but I need to learn a few more things before I do.
you guys have any advice for me.
I have asperger syndrome. for those of you who don't know it's a form of autism that affects your social skills. (I never use that as an excuse on why I never get girls because I've seen plenty of people with Asperger's get girls). also for some of you who might be curious I'm a very high-functioning.
I'm with a a company that helps people with disabilities like me. they help you try to be more independent. it's called community hab. it's where they sent a person to help you with things that you think you need to improve on to live more independent.
the first person they send was a middle-aged unattractive woman. we worked on a few things no biggie. that was until about a month ago she told me that another person will be shallowing her. I said I'm okay with that. the person that was shallowing her was this very cute, kinda gothic chick. it was kind of funny because when they first walked through the door I was in my t-shirt and shorts
what we did for a first meeting was just basically go to the library. talked about what kind of book I wanted to check that out and that was it. I was kind of interested then. however I overheard about her having a girlfriend. so that day I didn't think nothing of it.
then I was told on the phone that along with the middle aged woman I'll be working with the goth chick as well. in two separate days. so on a second meeting. she came by herself. ask if it was okay to take her shoes off. I said I didn't care. (note she takes her shoes off every time she comes over). she saw that I have a Harry Potter collection and that she was a huge fan. told her that she can borrow it if she wants. after we did our little tasks for the day. she asked me what I want to do next saying we have plenty of time. so she said we can work on my monthly budget. so we go up to my apartment and we both sit on the couch. as we are a talkin I just get extremely close and she is not bothered by it whatsoever. in fact I say she kind of enjoyed it. afterwards we shake hands and she left.
at this point I was a she might be interested in me. but I had to be sure because I don't want to come off as unprofessional or inappropriate so I thought the next time I'll do little light flirting see what happens.
so on our second meeting. I said little stuff like "I'm always going to need your help" or "you are amazing cents of style". she made a few sexual innuendo jokes like when she was messing with a radio say something like "I like touching that thing in the right spot". later that afternoon we sat her the car and I figured to tell her a little about myself my trials and tribulations but nothing too deep. then she dropped me home and that was that.
before I third meeting I text about something I needed from her. a right to an interview but she told me she couldn't get there in time. then we joke around of over text. For our third meeting. I decided to deep dive more. told me she likes to read self-motivation books. Before our day was over she asked once again what else do I want to do but this time she says "it's your time you can do the last me however you want". then I said "I really like the sound of that" afterwards we hugged (first we did that) and that was it.
I knew after this that I had to make a move and see what happens. she said she'll see me in 2 weeks for next meeting. reason being because she was going to visit Florida with her girlfriend.
before or fourth meeting she text me. she was going to return my Harry Potter collection. also she got a new job and won't be work with me anymore. she she likes working with me and I said I like working with her. she said she's coming over on her off time to deliver my Harry Potter collection even though we have one or two meetings left before she leaves for the new job and could have give it to me then. I told my brother this. he thought she was just simply being nice and I thought different (simply because I know he has no game and I've been on the field way more times then he has ever had). so I figured I'm just going to try to make my move the worst she can do is say no.
so today she comes out and stayed at the door doesn't take her shoes off. said she could hug because she was sick (she text me that the night before). so we talked a little bit. then I said okay I'm willing to take the risk and we hugged a lot. We had an emotional goodbye then she left.
in hindsight it might have been that little last minute resistance and if I would have pushed a little bit maybe something would have happened. or maybe she was simply being nice like my brother said. Even so at the same time this is literally like that 6 time this has happened to me. 4 in these last four months alone. This one so far was the closest I ever been.
I'm little bit emotional now. because it feels like every time I learn one new thing there's like five new things I need to learn in game. and I know the learning curve is is big especially when it comes to me but I really need to learn this. you have to trust me I am so close to sleeping with gorgeous women but I need to learn a few more things before I do.
you guys have any advice for me.
