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Chubadoo

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So.. I feel like a goddam cripple with my erectile dysfunction. What's the point of seducing chicks if you can't bang them.

I also feel that my dick's sensation is gone. I hardly feel anything from blowjobs. Was receiving a blowjob from a chick yesterday and she was having my whole dick inside of her, it was meh. And at times I was rock hard too. I only felt something only after I pulled my foreskin back and shoved the tip inside of her. Is my dick missing something or do all 3 women that I've been with suck at giving head?

Another issue I've got is when my dick goes soft, I barely feel anything. When the girl guides my soft, semi-erect dick (which later goes completely soft) inside of her, I can't tell if I'm in, or I'm humping her thighs. The only few times when I was rock hard and didn't actually lose my erection, sex felt great. But otherwise I feel nothing.

Is this a common thing or..?

EDIT: I do wake up with massive morning woods, get super hard throughout being with women, but once the condom or something else, I don't know what, comes into my mind, my dick goes .,. and can't get back up.
 

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EDIT: I do wake up with massive morning woods, get super hard throughout being with women, but once the condom or something else, I don't know what, comes into my mind, my dick goes .,. and can't get back up.
Condom too tight?
 

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Condom too tight?
Good point, since he has morning wood. It may be the condom, but he is getting bjs and no sensation, are you getting bjs with a condom? I doubt it. I lost my sensitivity when my testosterone went down I couldn't feel anything
 

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Bjs without a condom. Maybe the condom is too tight. But then again when it wasn't and my dick would go soft, the condom would come off inside the pussy. I don't know. Imma stop watching porn all together, maybe jerking off has got a play into it too.
 

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Bjs without a condom. Maybe the condom is too tight. But then again when it wasn't and my dick would go soft, the condom would come off inside the pussy. I don't know. Imma stop watching porn all together, maybe jerking off has got a play into it too.
Are the girls attractive and sexually competent?
 

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Yeah, otherwise I wouldn't get hard in the first place. Maybe the second one was too chubby for my liking but that wasn't an issue, I wanted to smash. Nor did I feel repulsed by her looks, as I was all over her.
 

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Did you have a few drinks before having sex? alcohol reduces sensitivity
 

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No, just ice tea. Maybe my testo has dropped, I've been lazy for some time now and haven't worked out in a while.
 

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#rawdog

I do not feel any sensations from blowjobs either (tho they do get me hard (just like morning wood and random hardons aren't due to feeling horny). So if you go soft, a good solution is to just make ask her to suck ur dick (in the case it doesn't work, chill out and then talk about sexual topics (sex stories/positions) with her so that you both get in the mood, then start passionately kissing her and voila!), then when it gets hard, fuck her).

I haven't worked out (and my diet's gone to shit) since March (waiting for gyms to open up. I'm an all or nothing guy) and I do not have these issues.
 

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@Velasco
About 7 months ago I'm with a hottie and we wanna bang. I get the same condom issue, dick gets hard, pull a condom wrap, flop, it drops. 4 times in a night, within like 30 minutes. It was painful. And she said lots of kinky stuff to me on her own, without me asking her, such as "I wanted to fuck you the moment I met you" which worked momentarily and got me rock hard, until I touched the condom wrap and yet again my dick died.
 

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4 times in a night, within like 30 minutes. It was painful.
which worked momentarily and got me rock hard, until I touched the condom wrap and yet again my dick died.
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I also forgot to mention that I'm 23, slim bodybuild, don't smoke and eat as healthy as I can, not much fruit or vegetables tho.
 

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@Hue
Quoting Chase on the highlights of the article Hue has sent me:


Highlights of that article:

  • Sex is largely an emotional (not a logical) process

  • If you're in your head, worried, nervous, or distracted, you may not be able to get or keep an erection

  • If your performance itself is a worry, this can create a vicious circle: you're worried about not getting it up, so you can't get it up, which makes you even more worried about getting it up, which gets you even farther from being able to get or stay hard

  • Five tips you can use to get hard

  1. Stop your mental calculations and focus on the sensation of being with a woman. Focus on the touch of her skin, the smell of her body, the sight of her. Look her all over, rub your hands on her, rub your member on her... drink her in

  2. Focus on the aspects of her you enjoy, rather than aspects of her you might not (if her breasts are too small but you really like her face, or her legs, focus on those)

  3. Take the pressure off yourself by giving yourself as long as you need to get hard. She's not going to leave. Focus on enjoying her and forget your erection

  4. Have her "get you read" (with oral or whatever else will make you hard)

  5. (optional / risky) Go raw. It's a lot easier to get in limp without worrying about a condom. And as soon as that warm, wet vagina is wrapped around your raw, naked cock, it's sensation overload... instead of worrying about your cock, you'll just be excited to be naked in a vagina (and the rest takes care of itself)
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3. Take the pressure off yourself by giving yourself as long as you need to get hard. She's not going to leave. Focus on enjoying her and forget your erection

4. Have her "get you read" (with oral or whatever else will make you hard)

5. (optional / risky) Go raw. It's a lot easier to get in limp without worrying about a condom. And as soon as that warm, wet vagina is wrapped around your raw, naked cock, it's sensation overload... instead of worrying about your cock, you'll just be excited to be naked in a vagina (and the rest takes care of itself)
This is basically my advice. Which is field tested. I don't see where you mentioned after her giving you a blow job / sex talking, fucking them raw didn't solve your problem.

If she's not on birth control have her take a plan B. Get tested monthly. If the doc says you got something, take ur azithromycin pills. Same as you'd take acetaminophen pills to treat your cold/flu.
 

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My first one took a plan B after condom slipped off and busted a nut in her and she had bad side effects for weeks, felt terrible.

I think my problem isn't ED but rather not being able to keep my erection for long.
 

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My first one took a plan B after condom slipped off and busted a nut in her and she had bad side effects for weeks, felt terrible.

I think my problem isn't ED but rather not being able to keep my erection for long.


listen as i said in many of my post and videos for first impressions is good to have viagra or cialis, i always have pre sarging, cialis/viagra for first lay impressions.... so field test... Also, i have sexual toys as insurance, and my mouth too... Watch this video:

 

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My first one took a plan B after condom slipped off and busted a nut in her and she had bad side effects for weeks, felt terrible.

I think my problem isn't ED but rather not being able to keep my erection for long.
Are you tiring yourself out / using too much effort to fuck her? (If you exert too much energy from your body you'll have a harder time maintaining an erection).

You can slow down the speed you're fucking her and still bring her (and yourself) to orgasm with the right form.

I was having this trouble myself a couple months ago (I wanted to demolish her pussy to oblivion everytime and ended up getting tired out / losing wood, and then that gave me performance anxiety). Luckily I asked Franco about it and he told me to switch up my thrusting speed - now we're both getting a happy ending ;)

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