Has my dick lost its' sensitivity?

[Chubadoo]

You can slow down the speed you're fucking her and still bring her (and yourself) to orgasm with the right form.

Wish that was the case. My dick goes soft the moment condoms come through my mind. Then I try to stick my dick in and it folds and falls out. Or while semi hard I can't tell whether I'm inside, I barely feel anything.

 

[Glow]

there is something called the death grip syndrome which comes from a more rough led masturbation practice often affiliated w porn. this means your nerves in your dick have literally become num to soft materials like pussy. if this is the case yYou need to resensitivize your dick through eg using a fleshlight for all masturbations, put more focus on physical dick feelings vs. eg fantasy or mental imagery, and how you feel in your body from it. And literally no hands on dick for months. often in a reboot you wanna start w a week of no sex nor mastubation doing so for a few weeks to reboot your system makign the only type of stimulations the fleshlight and making it scarce for the system to crave it and open more for new pathways.

Other dimension could be relational numming as already outlined - cause you num out when sex arises or alike with a chick. This is on the psychological side of things and should be fixed on that level. Like what happens in you emotionally when sex comes up, unfolds and especially on various areas of penetration. You have to look into your feelings and true motivations around sex in this beyond the superficial layers.

 

[Hue]

Wish that was the case. My dick goes soft the moment condoms come through my mind. Then I try to stick my dick in and it folds and falls out. Or while semi hard I can't tell whether I'm inside, I barely feel anything.

What sort of condoms are you using?

I almost exclusively use ultra-thin because otherwise condom-sex to me is just going through the motions and I barely feel anything. Other guys who are extra sensitive use desensitizing condoms so they don't ejaculate too early.

If you're just now getting used to having sex, that's a large factor.

 

[Chubadoo]

Guess that makes sense @Glow

@Hue I started off with some that were super thick and the latex material odor was so dense that it was a turn off for both parties.
Then I moved on to another brand which is more sensitive and my first time with those they were just perfect but later on I feel like they're kinda tight and sometimes a struggle to put on.

 

[Chrance]

Some things I’ve done and do to resensitize and improve my cock strength:

1.) don’t cum at all except around once a month at most

2.) like @Skills mentioned, use Cialis; this gives you a guaranteed boner

3.) similar to what @Glow said, but a little bit weirder - rather than jerk off, instead, I’ll put a condom on and lightly hump a soft surface like a pillow or something until I cum, just like a dog haha. This sounds rediculous, I know. But it’s great for sensitizing your cock to very light touch. I never jerk off with hands or do anything rough.

*when I joined SS I was having a rough time and was actually breaking the above (jerking a lot basically) which I think fucked up my boner back in February. But other than that I’ve done these things consistently since last year. Not cumming except once a month has been hard to maintain but is very powerful

 

[Hue]

In regards to using Cialis - we suggest here that you check with a physician and proceed with caution. Everybody's body reacts a little differently to these sorts of things and we don't want to jeopardize anyone's health.

Try all the non-drug use ways before resorting to that.

 

[Chubadoo]

I need some massive willpower to not touch my dick when waking up with a raging hard on and browsing instagram with little hotties all over the place dressed in their bikinis haha.