Having trouble initiating kiss

[Skills]

Its not just going for a hug bro, you already apply a lot of kino and sex talk before hand. Maybe hugs dont fit within your game which is cool but that doesnt mean they dont ever work for anyone

i could not find all the text but here are some of the girl i was banging trolling her date, lets call him huggie huggie, this are her texts:

"Yes I'll come later. I need a hug . But Not huggie-huggie style, please"

"Yea... But it wasn't as bad this time. They were at ease that i was with u and not some huggie-huggie strange dude."

 

[matheth]

Like its literally one hoe bro i dont get your point

 

[Spyce D]

This month , I went on dates with total of 4 girls . ( Including one today )

2 dates , 2 insta dates.

I am able to do touching but damn I chocked everytime I thought about kissing.

Even though there would be compliance , my hand would be around her shoulder , I would touch her lower back but I am just not able to do it .

 

[empath]

This is what I had done, after the date I asked my girl to take a walk, similar situation like with your girl she was invested and all i tried forcing kiss on her while we were walking on an empty road, she resisted we kept walking I tried it 2-3 times then she asked me why I am trying to kiss her i said because you want her, she said she don't want it I said you do otherwise u would have left and as soon as I said her i have something to bait her as well I don't remeber now but effect it had was she couldn't leave because she wanted some answer from me and I kept on trying to kiss until she melted

 

[TomInHo]

This month , I went on dates with total of 4 girls . ( Including one today )

2 dates , 2 insta dates.

I am able to do touching but damn I chocked everytime I thought about kissing.

Even though there would be compliance , my hand would be around her shoulder , I would touch her lower back but I am just not able to do it .

Don’t think anyone here can really help you get over this

Just have to grab your balls and take risks even when you feel uncomfortable

Because it’s better to try and get rejected sometimes to learn the natural rhythm. Rather than looking back and wondering… “What would have happened if I tried?”

 

[gameboy]

might be worth going step by step. give her a peck on the cheeck when she says something nice. Then on the lips... and see what happens

 

[gameboy]

Or another trick: once i was flirting hard with a girl, but we never kissed. at one point I teased her about something silly, and she stuck out her tongue. I was like "I dare you to do that again".

Of course she did it again, and I quickly licked the tip of her tongue with mine, then pulled back.

It led to one of the best and most intense makeouts ever

 

[Spyce D]

Don’t think anyone here can really help you get over this

Yeah , I know .

It's more of mental thing then technical .

Just have to grab your balls and take risks even when you feel uncomfortable

Because it’s better to try and get rejected sometimes to learn the natural rhythm. Rather than looking back and wondering… “What would have happened if I tried?”

Needless to say , I agree .

But , I am glad that this happened cuz it taught me the importance of escalation , making a move .

Women show a very different side of theirs when you repeatedly miss escalation windows .

And at one point , they even start acting like " prudes " even though they may have talked about sex before .

Happened with me yesterday .

 

[Spyce D]

Or another trick: once i was flirting hard with a girl, but we never kissed. at one point I teased her about something silly, and she stuck out her tongue. I was like "I dare you to do that again".

Of course she did it again, and I quickly licked the tip of her tongue with mine, then pulled back.

It led to one of the best and most intense makeouts ever

All I need is balls rn to try this .