Hectors Dump Article Question

[CaptainHenley]

Howdy,


We can't comment on the article for some reason so I am posting this here.

Regarding Hector's latest article, my question is,

how does a dump or dumped down person add value to group? If he has a vague look, doesnt talk much, cant contribute to the conversation etc. etc.,

why would he be wanted and invited again and again in a group?

Another thing is that Hector mentions women approaching dumb men, but how does that happen ? Why would they bother, especially if they are approached by other men?

Waiting for a reply, cause I'll be honest, cant wait to try this out.

Keep up the good job Hector

 

[Michal]

Hello,

his article points out that intelligent men do and care about different things than dumb men. So while the 140 IQ dude tries to talk about complexity of social interactions and all the factors that influence someone liking you or not when the group sees some guy try to pick up a girl, dumb guy will just go "did you see how she shut him down in 2 seconds hahaha!" And the group starts laughing as well.
So they provide value. They provide fun, good energy and good vibe.

The thing is you might say very daring things or even insulting and some girls will eat it up because they do not think you are offensive but because you are fearless and not afraid od confrontation. Just like if you move fast with girls, they will think you are very confident.

So, do not think that just because you dumb it down and stop being too intellectual in conversations, you will get better results. You need to have the rest as well - meaning those things Hector mentioned in the beginning (certainty, aggresiveness, pursuing what is popular). If you take away your intelligent remars without replacing it with "the arsenal of a dumb guy", you just stopped providing your own unique value. Same like when a friendzoned guy stops being nice and give attention to a girl, he has nothing to offer her.

Anyways, the answer to your question in the first couple of bullets of that article describimg how these guys go for and have interest in mainstream things.