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HELP! Girl in class, getting awkward fast.

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Space Monkey
space monkey
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The class is tomorrow, so I need to figure out what to do quick.

After last class, I asked her to hang out and she said she was busy with a volleyball banquet that night, but she said she would text me. I then asked if I could take her picture for my instagram and she agreed. (This is just a weird project I'm doing, I like "collecting" women.) So I took her picture. As we parted ways she repeated that she would text me. I touched her warmly on the arm with my whole hand as I left.

Now, I was suspecting that she wasn't going to text me, but I was also getting impatient, so I texted her first a few days later.

After a few texts in a row, I finally got her to respond.

hey sorry I wasn't sure how to say this but I'm talking to someone back home in Minnesota. I'm sorry for not answering you

I responded with "Oh, no worries. That was quite a game, huh?" (After the super bowl. We had talked about it before) Super weak. I need to keep reading GC, I'm falling into really weak texting patterns.

What do I do?? I really want to turn this around, but the problem is it's more for my pride, I'm not actually that into her. So the natural instincts are not really there. She has nice legs and lips so there is some motivation. She's kind of shy (she's a typical engineering girl, basically) and I really have NO CLUE how to deal with this kind of personality.

I guess most importantly, how do I keep things from getting more awkward? She's the only girl in the class and I need to stay friendly with her.
 

Lucky

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I'll point out your mistakes
1. You double texted, never double text woman see that as a sign of you being needy and not really having anything else to do in your life.
And
2. Since your a newbie (I'm guessing...) only use texting for logistics I made the same mistake when starting out and it set me back. If you want to talk to a chick do it face to face.
Now I'm running low on charge so I have to find a charger but don't forget what I have stated above keep those things in mind.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

ramshead

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Yeah bro you’re being needy. Don’t text until she texts back. If she takes 3 hrs to text ignore her for the same amount if she texts after 9pm. Don’t text her until the next day.

As far you having to be nice to her because she’s the only girl there don’t be. Treat her as normal still talk to her. But don’t try asking her out or anything for at least 3 weeks. You’re a seducer if she blew you off show her it’s no big deal you havd options. She will see your confidence and her attraction will intensify. She has you in the nice guy or friend zone place right know. A confident alpha male does not chase or is needy. By treating her the same you’re showing it didn’t affect you.

Only you make it awkward by blowing it off you’re acting like a bad boy alpha male
 
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