In Hong Kong, my old stomping grounds, for a few weeks.
Wasn't feeling too great recently, having just signed the divorce papers and facing plenty of life challenges.
Good news for me HK is one of the best places in the World to meet hot women of all flavors!
Met, dated and/or laid Brazilian, British, Italian, Chinese, Korean and Eurasian on this trip.
Can't write up everything but I'll do a couple of LR's for now.
Out at a bar on a Thursday night with a married buddy. We sit in the front of the bar, best people watching.
Blonde Blue eyed British HB8 walks in with her pregnant friend and sits down not far away.
She looks like January Jones.
I resist the urge to go chat them up right away, and don't pay any attention until their drinks arrive.
HB is having some kind of pink daiqueri.
I open asking what strange looking drink is, have a chat and a laugh with both of them, teasing them up about their career (teachers) and tell funny story about my kindergarten teacher (whose name was Mrs. beaver, I swear!) and keep calling her January instead of her real name. I tell them I can't stay as my friend is waiting for me. We were seated near the door so when HB goes to exit, I grab her, exchange a few words, hand her my phone to punch in her number. I've already input the name as "January Jones." No resistance.
Text game goes a bit rough. I tease her a lot, but she does not reply in a timely way. Pisses me off, I start to get frustrated. (Later i realized teachers turn their phones off during the school day!) Invite her out to the races following Tuesday with the lure of wearing funny hats...she's busy. Send her mysterious question about primates and an invitation to discover why I'm asking on Saturday (going to go see the Lemurs at Zoological Garden), she accepts than cancels last minute with believable excuse. She asks about rescheduling...I tell her it depends on where she is taking me.
That works and ultimately go for tapas and too much wine on a school night, I pay a lot of attention to my body language and voice tone, totally take charge of the ordering. I tease her about her ears and pretend like she is a ditzy blonde, keep her talking and qualifying herself. One time I validate her self qualification, she says "great, what do I get?" Without hesitation I kiss her. She's surprised and loves it, after that it's on. Ramp up kino, move to two more locations, heavy kissing and groping, walk her back to her house, get LMR which I don't try too hard to overcome because it is now 2am on a school night.
A few teasing text messages in days ensuing, a trip away to Thailand for a week wherein I ignore her, and set up to go on a hike with friends on my return. All day hike, lovely dinner and wine with friends, taxi straight back to hers. Finger her to orgasm, straight sex for a while but we're both tired and don't finish. She was still a bit uncomfortable and would not let me go down on her. Next morning it's on like Donkey Kong! I give her at least a 3 hour rogering. She finishes me off (at my request) with the most delicious BJ I've had in a long while, and we go for a scrumptious breakfast together.
Really nice, sweet girl, I like her and plan to see her again.
She knows I'm just in and out of town for now and this has its limits, and that's all copacetic.
She asks when she'll see me again, I tell her I will surprise her.
And I will.
What worked here, what did not work (IMHO):
WORKED:
1. marching straight up to she and her friend at the right moment, keeping friend involved,
2. teasing, sharing personal stories related to childhood, and finding a nickname early...for some reason this works for me, I try to give them nicknames ASAP
3. Didn't ask for her phone number, I told her to punch it in my phone....assumption of success = swagger/confidence --> success
4. Found interesting things to invite her to: Horseraces, Lemurs, Hike
5. Turned the tables on her and told her she'd have to invite me now if she wants to go out.
6. body language/voicetone awareness, moving locations, no hesitation on the kiss,
7. Taking care of her sexually first, genuine interest in her comfort and pleasure
DID NOT WORK:
1. My text game was way off...just couldn't quite find the rhythm...felt like I was chasing (I was.) I felt that she may have been turned OFF by how sexually suggestive some of my messages were, but I wanted to put things on the right track as early as possible.
2. At one point on date 1 we crossed over a red bridge which had locks attached to it (she explained it was a Swedish lovers tradition) I could have gone for the kiss then. Again, I did pull it out later when she asked 'what do I get?'
3. Probably drank too much and stayed out too late, losing the opportunity for first date lay, but that was not expressly my intent. I do like this girl a lot, and intend to see her again.
Wasn't feeling too great recently, having just signed the divorce papers and facing plenty of life challenges.
Good news for me HK is one of the best places in the World to meet hot women of all flavors!
Met, dated and/or laid Brazilian, British, Italian, Chinese, Korean and Eurasian on this trip.
Can't write up everything but I'll do a couple of LR's for now.
Out at a bar on a Thursday night with a married buddy. We sit in the front of the bar, best people watching.
Blonde Blue eyed British HB8 walks in with her pregnant friend and sits down not far away.
She looks like January Jones.
I resist the urge to go chat them up right away, and don't pay any attention until their drinks arrive.
HB is having some kind of pink daiqueri.
I open asking what strange looking drink is, have a chat and a laugh with both of them, teasing them up about their career (teachers) and tell funny story about my kindergarten teacher (whose name was Mrs. beaver, I swear!) and keep calling her January instead of her real name. I tell them I can't stay as my friend is waiting for me. We were seated near the door so when HB goes to exit, I grab her, exchange a few words, hand her my phone to punch in her number. I've already input the name as "January Jones." No resistance.
Text game goes a bit rough. I tease her a lot, but she does not reply in a timely way. Pisses me off, I start to get frustrated. (Later i realized teachers turn their phones off during the school day!) Invite her out to the races following Tuesday with the lure of wearing funny hats...she's busy. Send her mysterious question about primates and an invitation to discover why I'm asking on Saturday (going to go see the Lemurs at Zoological Garden), she accepts than cancels last minute with believable excuse. She asks about rescheduling...I tell her it depends on where she is taking me.
That works and ultimately go for tapas and too much wine on a school night, I pay a lot of attention to my body language and voice tone, totally take charge of the ordering. I tease her about her ears and pretend like she is a ditzy blonde, keep her talking and qualifying herself. One time I validate her self qualification, she says "great, what do I get?" Without hesitation I kiss her. She's surprised and loves it, after that it's on. Ramp up kino, move to two more locations, heavy kissing and groping, walk her back to her house, get LMR which I don't try too hard to overcome because it is now 2am on a school night.
A few teasing text messages in days ensuing, a trip away to Thailand for a week wherein I ignore her, and set up to go on a hike with friends on my return. All day hike, lovely dinner and wine with friends, taxi straight back to hers. Finger her to orgasm, straight sex for a while but we're both tired and don't finish. She was still a bit uncomfortable and would not let me go down on her. Next morning it's on like Donkey Kong! I give her at least a 3 hour rogering. She finishes me off (at my request) with the most delicious BJ I've had in a long while, and we go for a scrumptious breakfast together.
Really nice, sweet girl, I like her and plan to see her again.
She knows I'm just in and out of town for now and this has its limits, and that's all copacetic.
She asks when she'll see me again, I tell her I will surprise her.
And I will.
What worked here, what did not work (IMHO):
WORKED:
1. marching straight up to she and her friend at the right moment, keeping friend involved,
2. teasing, sharing personal stories related to childhood, and finding a nickname early...for some reason this works for me, I try to give them nicknames ASAP
3. Didn't ask for her phone number, I told her to punch it in my phone....assumption of success = swagger/confidence --> success
4. Found interesting things to invite her to: Horseraces, Lemurs, Hike
5. Turned the tables on her and told her she'd have to invite me now if she wants to go out.
6. body language/voicetone awareness, moving locations, no hesitation on the kiss,
7. Taking care of her sexually first, genuine interest in her comfort and pleasure
DID NOT WORK:
1. My text game was way off...just couldn't quite find the rhythm...felt like I was chasing (I was.) I felt that she may have been turned OFF by how sexually suggestive some of my messages were, but I wanted to put things on the right track as early as possible.
2. At one point on date 1 we crossed over a red bridge which had locks attached to it (she explained it was a Swedish lovers tradition) I could have gone for the kiss then. Again, I did pull it out later when she asked 'what do I get?'
3. Probably drank too much and stayed out too late, losing the opportunity for first date lay, but that was not expressly my intent. I do like this girl a lot, and intend to see her again.
