I am new here and I was hoping Chase could answer this post as it refers to a couple of articles written by him.
First of all, the content of your posts is really great. The best I’ve read so far, and it really stands out from all the misinformation out there! It doesn’t only apply to seduction, but it teaches you how to interact with people in general.
I have a question. It’s a theoretical one. I hope people don’t get offended by the topic , I saw some angry replies after your post about women who have a boyfriend. The reason for my question is that quite often I meet some “attached” women who invite me home, or hint that they want to come home with me. I haven’t capitalized on it yet. But it is tempting sometimes, as relationships often end anyway. So could you share some insights around how women who are “attached” mix up their signals of interest? I’ve read your posts about how women show interest in general (mixed signals, unmixed) and how to deal with women who has a bf (3 things to do, 7 things not to do when she has a bf) which are excellent posts. But my question is more on a focused area of the interaction with such women.
In your post about how women show interest (mixed signals, unmixed) you mention how not loosing reputation/face is extremely important to women. This must be even more so true with women in the “cheating zone”, who are looking to cheat or actually do it?
So what can you expect when interacting with such women, both when you two are alone and when you are together in a group. I mean, when we are in a group of people which to it is extremely important for her not to reveal her true intentions with you, she must be throwing in some very mixed signals? I mean, her risk is to come off as a slut, to lose friends, maybe her job and her relationship with bf/husband. It could be that the attraction is not yet even confirmed between the two of you (assuming there is attraction).
So my question is maybe a bit strange, but her it is: When you read other posts about signs of interest and signs of disinterest; if she mentions her boyfriend she is not interested. But could it be normal that she talks about her bf when you two are in a group of people who already suspect that there is something going on between you? And this would probably be intentionally, to cover up, or to discourage you to make a move or flirt while in this group (if this wasn’t obvious). Could she even mention bf when you two are alone as well, in order to not come off as a slut or to save face in case you weren’t interested anyway? And my last question: How many times should you ask her to accompany you if she keeps resisting, but clearly is interested?
I hope you could share some experiences around this
First of all, the content of your posts is really great. The best I’ve read so far, and it really stands out from all the misinformation out there! It doesn’t only apply to seduction, but it teaches you how to interact with people in general.
I have a question. It’s a theoretical one. I hope people don’t get offended by the topic , I saw some angry replies after your post about women who have a boyfriend. The reason for my question is that quite often I meet some “attached” women who invite me home, or hint that they want to come home with me. I haven’t capitalized on it yet. But it is tempting sometimes, as relationships often end anyway. So could you share some insights around how women who are “attached” mix up their signals of interest? I’ve read your posts about how women show interest in general (mixed signals, unmixed) and how to deal with women who has a bf (3 things to do, 7 things not to do when she has a bf) which are excellent posts. But my question is more on a focused area of the interaction with such women.
In your post about how women show interest (mixed signals, unmixed) you mention how not loosing reputation/face is extremely important to women. This must be even more so true with women in the “cheating zone”, who are looking to cheat or actually do it?
So what can you expect when interacting with such women, both when you two are alone and when you are together in a group. I mean, when we are in a group of people which to it is extremely important for her not to reveal her true intentions with you, she must be throwing in some very mixed signals? I mean, her risk is to come off as a slut, to lose friends, maybe her job and her relationship with bf/husband. It could be that the attraction is not yet even confirmed between the two of you (assuming there is attraction).
So my question is maybe a bit strange, but her it is: When you read other posts about signs of interest and signs of disinterest; if she mentions her boyfriend she is not interested. But could it be normal that she talks about her bf when you two are in a group of people who already suspect that there is something going on between you? And this would probably be intentionally, to cover up, or to discourage you to make a move or flirt while in this group (if this wasn’t obvious). Could she even mention bf when you two are alone as well, in order to not come off as a slut or to save face in case you weren’t interested anyway? And my last question: How many times should you ask her to accompany you if she keeps resisting, but clearly is interested?
I hope you could share some experiences around this
