How can an under 16 year old learn seduction

[Junior22]

Hi guys, my name is junior and I have a passion for seduction. I don't know if it's based on the fact that I was (and still am, to an extent) quite useless with girls. I am 15 years old and I started cold approaching 8 months ago. My success rate is still exactly the same as the first day I started. Quite pitiful. I read a similar plea from an underage teen like me and I realise that I should focus on my fundamentals and working my social circles. That I have started doing recently. I need someone, anyone who can help out a young teenager who sees Casanova as a role model. My texting game is also extremely in need of work and to be honest, I need a mentor. Please let me know what I need to work on
Thanks
Junior

 

[Big Daddy]

I mean, you responded it yourself... focus on your fundamentals for now. Get jacked. I wish I started lifting at 15. I'd slay bishes as soon as I started going out.

Take advantage of this period in your life to work on the things that aren't sexy... definitively lift, maybe take acting classes, maybe start singing... work on your fundamentals.

 

[Marcellus]

Junior

Talk to errrybody. Work on your social skills, make friends with girls at school, make friends with guys. All of them, the nerds, the jocks, the loners, talk and try to make friends with everybody. And work on reading the body language of people that your hanging out with, how are they feeling around you? Are they disinterested, are they excited, are they bored.

Something a lot of people don't realize is just by having good basic social skills and being able to talk to people you'll not only have it easier when you go HARD and really practice seduction but you'll also have it easier in terms of making friends later in life.

So, Just be social and talk to everyone. Make friends with all different kinds of people and definitely, 1000% go to Partiers. I repeat GO TO PARTIES, 16ths are awesome and I remember there being heaps of hotties whenever I went to a party back in school, should be the same situation for you.

 

[lostnumber]

What everyone else is saying. I wouldnt even worry about pickup right now, you can't even drive yet. Focus on your fundamentals and being a socially saavy awesome guy. At 15-16 that will be enough to get you laid without any kind of approach or special technique.

You are too young to realistically have any shot at cold approaching girls outside of your school. And if you try to run game in your school without knowing what you are doing its likely going to backfire and give you a reputation you dont want

Once you can drive if you are able to obtain a car that will at least give you logistical options for having sex

 

[Fuck This]

As you are in the throes of Pubescent Hormonal tides rising, it is only normal to want to be able to seduce comely young lasses. The most important thing to do is to learn to be comfortable around the opposite sex, and recognize their insecurity. What this will do is make you 1) less likely to panic in a social or one on one situation 2) more able to put women at ease with you, 3) understand their signals overt or subtle.

Be an observer of how women communicate with each other and their body language.
Get comfortable with eye contact and platonic touch.
Be able to greet people and bid them farewell with ease and confidence.

Really just being able to socialize comfortably without feeling awkward or unsure is going to help more than anything.

I remember my Homecoming date Freshman year in high school would get a nervous laugh and break eye contact with me before I could escalate. Had I been able to put her at ease better, I might have had a chance to escalate. But I was intimidated and didn't progress.

Sophomore year I had an upperclassman who was the older sister of one of my classmates introduce herself to me mistakenly thinking I was someone else. She had some unfortunate facial features, but I was able to kinda fumble around with her before we drifted apart and she spent time with older classmates.

During this time, I was friendzoned by my ideal girl (at the time) and she got an older boyfriend. Fast forward 20 years, and a few relationships later, and she confessed to wanting to start a long distance relationship when we were each at different colleges. So my point is, you need to recognize when girls are attracted to you and take advantage of that right away. I didn't and she found someone else who picked up her signals.

At our 20 year reunion I had SO many of the hot girls (in HS) come up and give me a hug and remark about how I was such a nice guy in HS, and how they had crushes on me, and I was clueless. Mainly I didn't have the self confidence to commit to following through to pursue a girl I thought was too good for me. I'd go for one I didn't care about as much and be surprised when she fell all over me.

 

[Junior22]

Thank you all, I appreciate it sincerely
Junior

 

[Bboy100]

Listen to this: http://thematinggrounds.com/the-mating- ... ges-14-18/
Then listen to pretty much every podcast episode on that website. If I had that resource when I was your age, my life would have been completely different.

Also, it gets better. It's very very difficult for most guys to become attractive until at least college age. Really, we don't reach our peaks (in terms of attractiveness) till our 30s believe it or not. Also, understand that in high school, most guys feel like you. You're not alone. Only a very very small percentage of the guys are actually successful. And as long as you're still in high school, its almost impossible to change (although you should definitely still try!).

But once you graduate, the world becomes your oyster
So just tough out these last few years, and I promise it will gradually get better (given that you work to improve yourself).