When I start talking to a girl and even when I think it's going well after a few (3-5) minutes they'll just stop talking to me or say "nice to meet you" and start talking to their friend again. Sometimes they'll even just walk away without saying bye. Sometimes I'll be talking to a girl at the bar and then after she gets her drink she'll just take off, only sometimes saying bye (I guess I should ask them to stay here?). I try to start convos out light before building up to heavier stuff (deep divining) and moving them...but I often can't even get to that stage. What am I doing wrong? I talk to many girls at clubs and it's entirely possible that EVERY girl does this to me in a given night. I feel like my "presence" and openers are solid, I feel like I'm doing everything right but this just keeps happening. Any advice?