How does one convey his value?

[M_Ronin]

I have been raised in the opposite way, so this one's not easy for me. What do you guys do to convey your value? Would marketing tips help?

 

[Tony D]

Your question is far too vague. Convey value where? When? At work? At the club? At the mall? Please be more specific.

 

[M_Ronin]

Well I have noticed I recieve glances from a certain type of women, mainly intelligent women. People always comment on how intelligently Sharp my eyes stare. So I am guessing here that my eyes, maybe walk and mannerisms convey my intelligence, which is found attractive by people who value intelligence.

Obviously nice clothes, a nice car, athletic body, handsomeness etc. all convey value. But some value like musical talent, can only be conveyed during you performing with a musical instrument (percussions are easier for this hehehe). Some value is more context specific, and it doesnt always show itself.

My question is, how does one convey more of your value in a subtler way. I dont know. I think it is a very important topic when it comes to generating attraction. I understand now that my question was not very well formulated, but I would like the question to be more open ended.

 

[Velasco]

how does one convey more of your value in a subtler way.

Ask her questions that you would like her to ask you in return. Which will give you an opportunity to Demonstrate High Value. Say you want to talk about your passion for playing the guitar. Well you can ask her, "so besides going to clubs and talking with extremely handsome men, what's something else you like to do?"

Reward her for investing ("ah that's really interesting") vibe with her on her answer. Then answer her "what about you?" If she doesn't ask you the question in return, then say something that will provoke her to ask. Like, "but yeah that's actually pretty dope....Almost as cool as what I like to do but still cool" to get that "and what will that be?"

That's just for general talking what your good at/passionate about. But you can still follow the same formula (ask her what you want her to ask you -> provoke her to dig deeper -> DHV) if you want to Demonstrate Lover Value (traits conducive for getting fast sex)

“so how long has it been since you last had a boyfriend?” -> "what about you?" -> You: “oh I’ve actually never been in a relationship” To provoke that, “what? Really? why not?” – So I can Demonstrate Value about being picky/having high standards.

 

[Cody Lyans]

Leadership, being a good host of her womanliness, being generous and focusing on positives, ignoring negatives in order to move forward and onwards.
Value is about the base energy of the environment around you and how you influence it and interact with it.

Here is an example
I was working at a new place
A guy was bantering with a paramedic girl who was a looker. He was being flirty and she was responding, but when talking about food he kept saying no you can't have none, which is funny if you are just playing, so... I hand her a chocolate bar and chill, and she's like, see u should take notes from this guy.
Note that I hadn't talked to her yet.
Next, I noticed the guy only flirted never deep dived, so she is probably a little uncomfortable and has to remain on edge, so I ask her about her dream job after she is done doing anything she can get shifts. She lights up and talks about her dream. I make a few jokes and take the piss but the sentiment is there, and now we know each other better.

Later on, I am talking to another girl outside in another location, and she sees me waves and comes over for a hug before leaving.

That's all value is.
Leading, positive, and creating a good vibe, so girls can be free.

 

[Fuck This]

The value is in how you make her FEEL. If you TRY to show off your value she won't appreciate it. But if she feels that you are strong and a leader by your actions and the way you engage then she will be attracted. Mainly that is accomplished by the way she watches you treat other people and interact with them.

Think of attention like dollar bills. If she sees you giving dollar bills to people, she will desire some for herself. But if you give her all your dollar bills at once she has no reason to continue to engage with you... Always keep a reserve, and let her earn it...Attention though...not money..

 

[Tony D]

Social media is a cheap way to convey value these days. Get yourself one of those apps that hacks Instagram and auto follows people, build up a following and add women. I only have 1200 instagram followers and it seems to impress women. Other than that, if you're talking cold approach, there's little you can do other than "have game" which means, style, charm, and confidence. All of which are deep subjects.

 

[M_Ronin]

Thanks a lot guys. I have been mingling with these things and I am already seeing massive inprovements. Cody's idea of being a good host and fuck this' idea of handing out attention bills to people were really the type of proactive thing I was looking for.

Velasco's is more situational but well noted. It's a nice tactic.

And... Instagram is a nice way to do it too. I have a buddy from the gym that takes pictures of wilderness. He have gotten some girls that were fans of his work.