How much should I insist on objections? When insistence becomes neediness?

[razir110]

Hi everyone!

I think I have an issue with handling objections from girls. Like every time I try to take her home I get them. Ok it's normal! BUT!! How many objections would you guys insist on before calling it a day?

Like I ask ones, objection. I handle it. Ask again, another objection etc etc. It reaches a point when I am sort of uninspired to go on and I don't want to appear needy, so I would just call it a day and follow my path.

Would you guys stay there trying to convince her for say 1hour, 2 hours? Or would you give it a few shots and don't insist further?

Cheers!

 

[Fuck This]

Turn up the HEAT, yes it is a customer service principle....

Hear them out - Let her finish telling you Why she won' go home with you. If you contradict their reasoning at every turn it becomes more about her being right than if she might like to come.
Empathize - "Yeah, I see how you feel. And that's fine. "
Apologize - But not really " Sorry I won't get to show you the awesome view from my balcony."
Take action - I'm headed home to have a night cap and watch the moon come up. You are welcome to join me, or you can come over another time." You show your outcome independance and make it her idea.

if ASD is the objection, the response is that you don't judge a woman for having a sexual appetite. You think that the physical part of a relationship is a huge part of being compatible.

 

[razir110]

@Fuck This , thank you for your reply.

Usually I am playful about their objections, but I don't want to be pushy, you know what I mean? Hum, yeah Ill try this thing a few times,

Also can you elaborate on your last sentence? I don't get what you mean by "f ASD is the objection, the response is that you don't judge a woman for having a sexual appetite. You think that the physical part of a relationship is a huge part of being compatible."

Thanks!

 

[kiddpitt]

ASD=anti slut defense. When a girl resists because she doesnt want to come across as a slut.