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How to Bait via text to get her to hint a meet

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Tribal Elder
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Guys you know I like to ramble, but my rambling are PRACTICAL, just stay with me, you know how I love to make shit simple…

A seducer asked me to do, a how do I do my baiting (actually there was a texting guide by ijjji rip where he kind of explain my texting style really good based on a post I made called
how to set up second encounters, if anyone saved that texting post and containment (based on the bubble) from whole of fame of nextasf please let me know)…..Disclaimer.- I know credibility in questions but he could explain those 2 things good, which is all I care and I have done and continue doing those things wayyy before he wrote the posts.


Now a lot of you have heard women complaining like one of my exes about guys texting and texting but never asking them out…And they get all frustrated, guess what, is very similar to this, but from a point of abundance vs feeling lonely (the guys women complain about are the feel lonely guys that need feminine energy, THIS IS NOT WHAT I AM DOING, examples later).. Also those guys have normal texting convos, this is more of a flirty, sexy, charming texting vs useless no point banter going nowhere texting (most civilians they complain about).

I wrote a post about to
pursue or not pursue, of course people did not get it, but again is similar to Brent Smith no pursuing method, hang moody character in Cali fornication in which you flirt, you are what rsd use to call man to women, but you don’t really do soft closes or hard closes, you just flirt till the girl hints a meet…. (again samples later)… This by far is my favorite method of texting, I have been doing it for years. The other dude i seen doing this is rip vel and again recently skippy just learned it and did it @Skippy let me know if is ok with you to show your sample, i respect your privacy...

The problem is, there is not way to teach “I don’t need it to happen concept”, the way to acquire this is by having abundance. You acquire abundance by having an INVESTED main, or talking to multiple women hopefully some you are banging. It saddens me to notice that most guys even seducers don’t have volume, therefore they try to replicate the “no need it to happen concept” but women can tell is fake, a charade and act, women resemble cats they have a deep 6th sense on steroid….

So again, here is the structure is a bit more advance (but no really, you just need patience):

Open>flirt/charm/seduce/second gen.> wait for her soft close, hint or hard close > only after this, you hard close.

Key points:


  • I hate to state the obvious but STRONG INTERACTIONS PRE NUMBER.
  • Take your time on replies
  • Radio silence to: no compliant flirt or text or no investment answers (same with attempts to ig, or snap or any other social media)… Examples later
  • No pings, she is the one that pings, the only ping exception is post her soft closing you or hard closing you…

Why does it work, well, women feel tons of pressure and get anxiety when they are facing a commitment or call to action (“I have to meet this dude and I told him I would, oh shit! What if I get disappointed, what if he is uglier than when I met him, what if he wants sex, what if I don’t like him anymore, I got spend and hour getting dress, I need to shave, what would I wear, I need to flat iron my hair)……. This style total destroys the meet anxiety that women feel…. It also flips the dynamics (I love doing this, In relationships and when texting, flipping dynamics she becomes the hunter I become the prey)……..

Again, I got other more aggressive high odds methods, this one is for guys that want to learn what I call baiting (just like everything else is skillset that requires tons of practice, though skippy did it today, some type of water down version)

These are recent samples cold approach every girls is 15-25 years younger, all cold approach…(I have hundreds of samples these are most recent ones):

Exhibit A (out of town visiting):

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Exhibit B:

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^ PUNISHMENT TIME/ RADIO SILENCE TIME... FUCK! FACEBOOK AND IG... NOTICE THE TIME STAMPS, SHE UNDERSTAND THE SUBCOMMUNICATION AND TRIPLE TEXT, AFTER HOURS PASS BY...THIS GIRL IS NOT A 6 OR 7 BY THE WAY... IF I GO TO HER IG I KNOW I WILL FUCK THE WHOLE THING, OVERVALUING HER AND MINLD OBSESSION AND SHIT, AND MY VALUE WITH MY SORRY AS IG AND FB WILL GOT TO THE TOILET, AND KILL HER PERCEPTION OF WHO SHE THINKS I AM...


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Exihibit c.- dumb ass gen z 22 year old latin club girl (hard to communicate since she is in lala land, this gen is fucked as in dumb) Boba in
Spanish translates to dummy in English

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Tribal Elder
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hey guys thanks to at @Witcher here is ijjjji post:


100% Method for Meeting up with Girls


02-18-2014, 01:55 PM
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Part 1 - Why Plans Result in Cold Feet.

The inherent problem with planned events, is that during the period leading up to the event, there will be 'low' periods where future events are seen in a 'negative light' of worry or lack of enthusiasm. (Just think about a time when you were feeling worried, tired or just bored.) During such times, negative thoughts and worries tend to ACCUMULATE in regard to upcoming events. With longer time span, more such 'lows' will occur, potentially allowing multiple layers of negativity to accumulate. End result is often total loss of interest or even AVERSION.

In short, planning in advance will make any previous doubts FESTER & AMPLIFY, resulting in COLD FEET.

Conclusion: NEVER plan a first meet-up in advance.

Part 2 - How to Make Unplanned Meet-ups Happen.

Effortless way:
-Avoid communicating entirely, until next friday/saturday night.
-Then text something like "Hi Im at bar X! You?"

Fast way:
-Converse (text or phone-call) with girl WITHOUT hinting for a meet. Just flirt! No asking about what she doing or what her plans are.
-The moment SHE HINTS for a meet, suggest meeting up 'right now'.
-Example:

ij: "Heeey tiger u awake? Friday was fuun " (typically 11pm'ish on a sunday)

girl: "Yes? lol your name is sexyjiji?!?"

ij: "What?? you typo on your cell?? My name is ijjjji. Nice to meet you!"

girl: blablabla

ij: blabla (insert playfully busting her balls!!)


girl: flirty blabla. "Im watching series X. What u doing?"

ij: X is nice? I could watch with you but starving.. U have food?


(This method is much more effort, because sometimes you have to tease girls for days before they 'crack' like this. But it always happens sooner or later in my experience!)


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(Digression: The fallacy of reverse engineering is evident for this subject. 'Good' (popular) guys report that they never have problems when planning a meeting. (Since the girl had NO DOUBT to begin with.) Consequently, they tend to SPAM the forums with the BAD ADVICE of scheduling meets, leading to an endless stream of frustrated posts from newbies who always get last minute cancel from girls. On average there are 2 new topics like this every week. Every time the same useless advice given. Possibly making this the most deeply rooted misunderstanding in all of seduction.)

(Scheduling meetups can actually be useful for weeding out lukewarm girls, in a situation where you have many girls lined up.. e.g. you could schedule 10 girls from online on the same day, and hope that 1 or 2 dont flake.. Be warned though: the reduction of interest still plays a role, so the girl could be lukewarm when you meet her, leaving you with more 'uphill struggle', compared to a spontaneous meeting..)
 
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