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im going to a massive salsa event at a bar soon...gonna dance with lots of girls. I also have a formal dinner event that happens annually at my workplace which I want to bring a date to. I don't know any girls to ask, so I wanted to dance with a bunch of girls at the salsa event, collect a bunch of numbers (since many might say no/flake) to ask to go to this formal.
How do I go about this to:
1) not confuse the girl if I ask her to this formal after a dance and then move on to some girl (she will probably expect me to stick around and not just move on from her if i expressed interest in having her go to my formal? or would she not think this?)
2) how to dance with many girls and ask for their number to go to the formal and not make it look like im asking every girl i dance with
3) Should i instead, make no mention of the formal and just collect instagrams and then later, ask them out to this formal
4) if all of the points above aren't good, how should i go about this.
Btw, I think the best way would honestly be to find a girl who is DTF and pull her home, then ask her, but I've never done this ever so idk how successful id be.
How do I go about this to:
1) not confuse the girl if I ask her to this formal after a dance and then move on to some girl (she will probably expect me to stick around and not just move on from her if i expressed interest in having her go to my formal? or would she not think this?)
2) how to dance with many girls and ask for their number to go to the formal and not make it look like im asking every girl i dance with
3) Should i instead, make no mention of the formal and just collect instagrams and then later, ask them out to this formal
4) if all of the points above aren't good, how should i go about this.
Btw, I think the best way would honestly be to find a girl who is DTF and pull her home, then ask her, but I've never done this ever so idk how successful id be.
