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Space Monkey
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Update guys: had a call with her.

It was a long call.

In between the call I said we were just hanging out.

She got mad, like after kissing me you are saying we were hanging out. She saw it as a proper date.

Then later something related to bed came.

So she said the person "I wanted to share the bed with" is saying we were just hanging out.


I can visit her city next week it will be in transit only. Not making a special visit for her.

Say I will have 2-3 hours and shitty logistics. Is there any way I can get laid?

Should I just skip the vacation and plan a date with her. Probably laying her will ease my pain.

Like how do I make it clear we are having sex without having to tell her.

See the exact problem I have is she lives in a place with roommates so I can't barge in their place. It's all girls place.

And if I book a hotel and she changes her mind to not come or gives any resistance at last moment, what to do?
 

Skills

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Update guys: had a call with her.

It was a long call.

In between the call I said we were just hanging out.

She got mad, like after kissing me you are saying we were hanging out. She saw it as a proper date.

Then later something related to bed came.

So she said the person "I wanted to share the bed with" is saying we were just hanging out.


I can visit her city next week it will be in transit only. Not making a special visit for her.

Say I will have 2-3 hours and shitty logistics. Is there any way I can get laid?

Should I just skip the vacation and plan a date with her. Probably laying her will ease my pain.

Like how do I make it clear we are having sex without having to tell her.

See the exact problem I have is she lives in a place with roommates so I can't barge in their place. It's all girls place.

And if I book a hotel and she changes her mind to not come or gives any resistance at last moment, what to do?
Brah! I am speechless
 

topcat

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Update guys: had a call with her.

It was a long call.

In between the call I said we were just hanging out.

She got mad, like after kissing me you are saying we were hanging out. She saw it as a proper date.

Then later something related to bed came.

So she said the person "I wanted to share the bed with" is saying we were just hanging out.


I can visit her city next week it will be in transit only. Not making a special visit for her.

Say I will have 2-3 hours and shitty logistics. Is there any way I can get laid?

Should I just skip the vacation and plan a date with her. Probably laying her will ease my pain.

Like how do I make it clear we are having sex without having to tell her.

See the exact problem I have is she lives in a place with roommates so I can't barge in their place. It's all girls place.

And if I book a hotel and she changes her mind to not come or gives any resistance at last moment, what to do?
The entire premise of the blog and this forum, is to get girls chasing you.

What part of this involves the girl chasing you?

None.

This is desperation and you’re wasting people's time..
 

empath

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@Skills and @topcat

1)this is a post for a special girl.
2) not everyone wants to be mPua, I need a right gf and I think she one.
3) This does not mean I have stopped focusing on other girls
4) this call confirms attraction is mutual, she wants to go to bed with me
5) even @Chase gave a girl 3 months. Read this article https://www.girlschase.com/article/how-let-girl-go
Though he wont do it again. I think every men need to see it for himself.

I see myself being persistent and not chasing her.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

topcat

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@Skills and @topcat

1)this is a post for a special girl.
2) not everyone wants to be mPua, I need a right gf and I think she one.
3) This does not mean I have stopped focusing on other girls
4) this call confirms attraction is mutual, she wants to go to bed with me
5) even @Chase gave a girl 3 months. Read this article https://www.girlschase.com/article/how-let-girl-go
Though he wont do it again. I think every men need to see it for himself.

I see myself being persistent and not chasing her.

Then do what your heart desires. I don’t have any advice for you besides leave this girl alone and focus on better prospects.
 

Skills

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Update guys: had a call with her.

It was a long call.

In between the call I said we were just hanging out.

She got mad, like after kissing me you are saying we were hanging out. She saw it as a proper date.

Then later something related to bed came.

So she said the person "I wanted to share the bed with" is saying we were just hanging out.


I can visit her city next week it will be in transit only. Not making a special visit for her.

Say I will have 2-3 hours and shitty logistics. Is there any way I can get laid?

Should I just skip the vacation and plan a date with her. Probably laying her will ease my pain.

Like how do I make it clear we are having sex without having to tell her.

See the exact problem I have is she lives in a place with roommates so I can't barge in their place. It's all girls place.

And if I book a hotel and she changes her mind to not come or gives any resistance at last moment, what to do?
Don't pay in advance call places around the area find out the price and availability on particular day you plan to bang her... Don't explicit say you are going to bang.... Get her emotional and sexually charge indirectly...run a proper date, look my post on how to date, and if the lay is there just tell her you are staying in pre arrange motel or hotel and you got to check in, we call that plausible deniability... I hope you are not going 3 to 4 hours to a city for a girl and you are really going to be there for vacation.... Good luck
 

Atlas IV

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In between the call I said we were just hanging out.

She got mad, like after kissing me you are saying we were hanging out. She saw it as a proper date.
So she said the person "I wanted to share the bed with" is saying we were just hanging out.
Man what exactly are you trying to achieve here? She's explicitly telling you that she wanted to have sex, and now you're friendzoning her, hiding your dick and pretending that you didn't want sex all along??

Feel kinda bad for this chick lol, she must be so bloody confused...
 

Skills

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Man what exactly are you trying to achieve here? She's explicitly telling you that she wanted to have sex, and now you're friendzoning her, hiding your dick and pretending that you didn't want sex all along??

Feel kinda bad for this chick lol, she must be so bloody confused...
Actually i think it helped, he saying we were hanging out made her mad and say that... But i am personally confused myself about the whole thing... But emphap do what i tell you, find out the area with Google maps and making sure pull less than 10 minutes and tell her you are staying in there and your check in cut off about to expire to come with you real quick... Pay then... Just in case not there you don't waste the money... just plan in advance, but she told you pretty much she wants to fuck already...
 

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Don't pay in advance call places around the area find out the price and availability on particular day you plan to bang her... Don't explicit say you are going to bang.... Get her emotional and sexually charge indirectly...run a proper date, look my post on how to date, and if the lay is there just tell her you are staying in pre arrange motel or hotel and you got to check in, we call that plausible deniability... I hope you are not going 3 to 4 hours to a city for a girl and you are really going to be there for vacation.... Good luck
@Skills yes I am going for a vacation and her city will come in transit.

Yes I will follow your 3 date model.

My plan is to use drinking wine as an excuse to pull. That day is christmas eve and she wants to visit few places (serves as a date itself). She asked me to bring wine herself (in that particular state alcohol is banned).

So 1st question is when should I try to pull asap or after date?

2nd question is How to charge her emotionally?

I am thinking about creating a barrier about our future say maybe things will work or not and a us vs world barrier.

Because at least I need to do 2-3 hours of talking if date happens first and she ends up doing some random shit like not coming back to my place etc.

I want to lay her ASAP to not to let attraction expire or her finding another men.

I am thinking not to talk much on phone saying her I am busy so I don't end up saying or doing anything stupid to lose attraction.

Actually i think it helped, he saying we were hanging out made her mad and say that... But i am personally confused myself about the whole thing... But emphap do what i tell you, find out the area with Google maps and making sure pull less than 10 minutes and tell her you are staying in there and your check in cut off about to expire to come with you real quick... Pay then... Just in case not there you don't waste the money... just plan in advance, but she told you pretty much she wants to fuck already...

Man what exactly are you trying to achieve here? She's explicitly telling you that she wanted to have sex, and now you're friendzoning her, hiding your dick and pretending that you didn't want sex all along??

Feel kinda bad for this chick lol, she must be so bloody confused...

@Atlas IV I said it consciously to create a push Pull. I had given out too much interest.

So yeah it helped in cementing her feelings for me.
 

Skills

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@Skills yes I am going for a vacation and her city will come in transit.

Yes I will follow your 3 date model.

My plan is to use drinking wine as an excuse to pull. That day is christmas eve and she wants to visit few places (serves as a date itself). She asked me to bring wine herself (in that particular state alcohol is banned).

So 1st question is when should I try to pull asap or after date?

2nd question is How to charge her emotionally?

I am thinking about creating a barrier about our future say maybe things will work or not and a us vs world barrier.

Because at least I need to do 2-3 hours of talking if date happens first and she ends up doing some random shit like not coming back to my place etc.

I want to lay her ASAP to not to let attraction expire or her finding another men.

I am thinking not to talk much on phone saying her I am busy so I don't end up saying or doing anything stupid to lose attraction.





@Atlas IV I said it consciously to create a push Pull. I had given out too much interest.

So yeah it helped in cementing her feelings for me.
You mean 3 bounce, no 3 dates.... After 1 hour and 30 minutes your odds may go down 3 hours on encounter overkill... I am confused, you said you had logistics issues... I was trying for you to avoid paying for a hotel if the pull not there but if you are on vacation I assume you already have a hotel???
 

empath

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You mean 3 bounce, no 3 dates.... After 1 hour and 30 minutes your odds may go down 3 hours on encounter overkill... I am confused, you said you had logistics issues... I was trying for you to avoid paying for a hotel if the pull not there but if you are on vacation I assume you already have a hotel???
Yes 3 bounce.

Got it gotta do in 1 hour and 30 mins.

Already seed the pull by saying we will drink wine inside my friends house.

Though I don't have any friend, I will tell hee later that I am staying at a hotel because my friend bailed out.

Yes logistic issue as in she had extream time constrains.

Also, she has fallen in love somewhat.

Called me herself, I tried keeping it short but she said she wants to talk more and when I finally cut the call. She sent a sad emoji.

Strong chance I will not face LMR.

Just no need to do anything stupid for 5-6 days.
 

TomInHo

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Bro... this girl likes you

Try not to overthink it.

Meetup with her, have fun and invite her to your hotel and sleep with her

Try not to obsess and the minutia details because here it doesn't really matter that much

You are not a virgin, you have fucked other girls before and you have the skills to fuck her too

Good luck and hope you two have a blast together
 
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