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How to let her know you want sex

Tareqborovic

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So, whenever I ask my friends about how I should transition into taking a girl home, fucking her in the car, her place, or wherever, the answer I usually get is make sure she knows shits about to go down, make sure she knows you're interested in her sexually before you guys meet up. They basically tell me that there's no crazy smooth transition in the moment where she goes from not even thinking about fucking u, to fucking u on the same date.

So what I wanna know, is how do I do that? Especially if I'm communicating with her through text for a while before we meet up. How can I let her know that we're gonna fuck, or how can I figure out if shes down to fuck?
 
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Richard

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1) Don't use texting as a means to build a connection; you use texting as a tool to set up dates where you can build real sexual tension.

2) The idea of sex is always on a girl's mind and if she's agreeing to a date with you then, to some degree, she's already thought about fucking you.

3) You figure out whether a girl is down to fuck by being sexual with her on a date and pushing the envelope beyond "normal/typical" dates. If you can get her talking sexually, telling stories, making sexual innuendos, injecting aspects of sex into mutual conversation then you're communicating to her that you want to fuck and if she's responding well then she's probably also down to fuck. Girls really do not open up their sexual selves to the average man so if she's playing ball with you then you, at the very least, have your foot in the door.

4) Typically, when I approach women I make it fairly obvious what my goals are pretty fast. I approach women with direct compliments and that signals a lot to them. Think about how what you say gives them clues about what you're looking for; there's a big difference between "Hey, what time is it?" and "Hey, I saw you walking and thought you were incredibly cute." They're both openers but give girls very different ideas about you.

5) To sum things up, don't get sexual over text with a girl you haven't slept with yet. While on a date or meeting up with her you want to inject sexuality into things, make jokes, get her opening up sexually and then you want to close by giving her plausible deniability or by giving her a reasonable excuse to come over so, that, later she can tell her friends "Yeah, I was supposed to just go over to his place to make drinks and watch a movie but one thing lead to another..."

-Richard
 

Big Daddy

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Richard said:
2) The idea of sex is always on a girl's mind and if she's agreeing to a date with you then, to some degree, she's already thought about fucking you.

Would you say that this applies even if you got the girl's number in a fairly indirect manner?
 

RockstarBalance

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Tareqborovic

Women always want to have Sex...
Sex isn't something that you have to convince her to have, it already exists in her mind... So how do you let her KNOW that you want to have Sex ? You just... look at her - in a Sexual Way, hold her hand and see if she squeezes it, grab her Ass and make it jiggle, solve the Logistics by asking her to follow you somewhere, my favorite pull line is
"Let's Go For a Walk"
Then you bring her back to your place, and push her against the wall... Pinning her arms in the air and making her Submissive, kissing her neck and working your way around... She'll love it ;)

You don't have to let her KNOW that you want to have Sex, because you should already KNOW that she wants to have Sex with you.... it's already on her Mind - there's not much you need to Do!

Just Take Action and be a MAN about your Sexuality
You gotta be ABOUT IT

~RockstarBalance
 

FS80

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I often hear "Do you live close?" or "It's not far for you to get home" after having a walk and bringing her back to the station. Is she saying this out of curiosity, because of the moment or wanting me to pull her?
 
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