How to recognize "anime eyes"?

[Narrator]

RSD Julian and Tyler say that some girls will start having anime eyes if you push through. How do I recognize those anime eyes? I have been cold approaching for some time. Although in majority of my approaches, I have ejected even if the girl is interested (warning to newbies that if you go and ask girls for direction a 100 times, some girls will undoubtedly show interest in you, so don't self-sabotage like me) because of anxiety which sucks. I am still trying to push past it and in some of my approaches, I push past it and go for number close.

Anyway, back to the original topic, do "anime eyes" mean when a girl smiles and her eyes kind of widen? Because if so, there was this one scenario in a club where a girl grabbed me out of nowhere even though she had a plain asf face while listening to me yapping for 5 minutes. She didn't seem to smile much, but she was listening to me attentively (there are also times when a girl listens to me attentively while looking at my lips). So do "anime eyes" mean that the girl looks at you with all her attention?

 

[StrayDog]

RSD Julian and Tyler say that some girls will start having anime eyes if you push through. How do I recognize those anime eyes? I have been cold approaching for some time. Although in majority of my approaches, I have ejected even if the girl is interested (warning to newbies that if you go and ask girls for direction a 100 times, some girls will undoubtedly show interest in you, so don't self-sabotage like me) because of anxiety which sucks. I am still trying to push past it and in some of my approaches, I push past it and go for number close.

Anyway, back to the original topic, do "anime eyes" mean when a girl smiles and her eyes kind of widen? Because if so, there was this one scenario in a club where a girl grabbed me out of nowhere even though she had a plain asf face while listening to me yapping for 5 minutes. She didn't seem to smile much, but she was listening to me attentively (there are also times when a girl listens to me attentively while looking at my lips). So do "anime eyes" mean that the girl looks at you with all her attention?

You could spend a lifetime analyzing the women's facial expressions, and what they may or may not mean. But as long as you keep looking for relations over results you arent really going to progress in the field.

Don't get me wrong, there are common facial expressions that women make that TEND to indicate one thing or another. The more you spend time in field and get results the more you start noticing patterns like this and can say "oh shes giving me this look, could mean she is feeling this way." But that is only one barometer for how things are going. Because you can't really know exactly what that look means entirely. She could be giving you lusty eyes, but if you have low compliance or attraction for all you know she is just playing with you for attention. Or maybe she jokingly gives you a disgusted look as a shit test, but she actually likes you and is kind of just messing with you. Looks can be deceiving.

So, get out in field, keep aiming for results and moving things forward. Then once you have a bunch of experience and personal reference points you will start to recognize patterns. But don't get hung up on something like "what do anime eyes mean"

Results or reactions. Test for compliance during key points of the seduction, and get her to invest in your interaction. That is the best barometer of how much she is into you. Like if you try to move her from one spot to another in the venue, and she goes with you, and so on.

Also, aim to stay in set longer. Ejecting too soon is a common mistake. Obviously don't stick around once it is clear she is not interested. But you have to test where the line is, or you will miss out on a lot of great opportunities.

 

[Narrator]

You could spend a lifetime analyzing the women's facial expressions, and what they may or may not mean. But as long as you keep looking for relations over results you arent really going to progress in the field.

Don't get me wrong, there are common facial expressions that women make that TEND to indicate one thing or another. The more you spend time in field and get results the more you start noticing patterns like this and can say "oh shes giving me this look, could mean she is feeling this way." But that is only one barometer for how things are going. Because you can't really know exactly what that look means entirely. She could be giving you lusty eyes, but if you have low compliance or attraction for all you know she is just playing with you for attention. Or maybe she jokingly gives you a disgusted look as a shit test, but she actually likes you and is kind of just messing with you. Looks can be deceiving.

So, get out in field, keep aiming for results and moving things forward. Then once you have a bunch of experience and personal reference points you will start to recognize patterns. But don't get hung up on something like "what do anime eyes mean"

Results or reactions. Test for compliance during key points of the seduction, and get her to invest in your interaction. That is the best barometer of how much she is into you. Like if you try to move her from one spot to another in the venue, and she goes with you, and so on.

Bro I get your point. But when you go for a kiss in the interaction (in the club), do you not check for IOIs? If I dance and don't escalate with her, usually some other guys will steal the girl. This is why I wanted to know the "anime eyes" concept.

 

[StrayDog]

Bro I get your point. But when you go for a kiss in the interaction (in the club), do you not check for IOIs? If I dance and don't escalate with her, usually some other guys will steal the girl. This is why I wanted to know the "anime eyes" concept.

Oh, I get ya. Yeah, if I am dancing with a girl, we have been dancing for a solid moment (it's not too too soon into the interaction) and the energy is escalating, we are grinding and whatnot, and she starts giving me "the eyes" I take that as an indication that it's probably about time to move the interaction. Personally I wouldn't escalate with a kiss, can take the set over the top and either kill tension or trigger ASD (of course there can always be exceptions to this, and sometimes a little kiss doesn't hurt, so gotta use your intuition). What I would do instead of kissing is see if I can get some compliance by suggesting we move, like to go somewhere where its not so loud, or get water, or cool off outside.

So yeah in that scenario, like I outlined the "anime eyes" can be a good indication she is getting aroused from the dancing. Although "anime eyes" might be a bit subjective to describe it. But basically, if you have some solid momentum going on the dance floor, and you think she is giving you seductive eyes than try to move her and you will get a good sense of where she is at in the interaction. Even if she objects she will give you good data to work with.

 

[OldGuy]

I think anime eyes are what we used to call puppy dog eyes. (The puppy wants your attention.)

 

[StrayDog]

I think anime eyes are what we used to call puppy dog eyes. (The puppy wants your attention.)

alright old guy, just how old are you exactly?