How to respond to this shit test or whatever it is?

[enjoystick]

Hey guys!

I've been doing online dating for two weeks again and I started to message with this woman 2-3 days ago and I don't like the site where we are so I told her

me: blablabla previous subject
me: let's talk more on Facebook 'cause sometimes I forget about this site for months
me: -my profile link-
her: blalbalblaba reaction to the subject we talked before
her: I'm here because I don't want to be on facebook!


So how to handle whatever it is?

Thank you in advance!

 

[Regal Tiger]

Ask her out

First, because she declined your compliance request I would send a fluff message or two. Then ask her out

Online dating isn't for talking it's for scheduling dates!


Because you've already been talking to her then I wouldn't recommend following my general structure, but for the next girl here's my general messaging structure:

Message 1: Opener
Message 2: Tease/Ask a question to get to know her a little better
Message 3: Tease/Ask a question/Answer question
Message 4: Answer question/Hey do you like smoothies?
Message 5: Have you ever been to blank before?
Message 6: No!? Their smoothies are like angels tap-dancing on your tongue!

From here you can either ask her when she's free or get her number AND then ask her when she's free

Continuing Message 6: When are you free? We'll have to go sometime
Then schedule logistics, then get phone number

Or

Continuing Message 6: What's your number? We'll have to set something up

Text 1/Message 7: Hey it's Regal Tiger from Tinder (or wherever)
Text 2/Message 8: When are you free? You have to try these smoothies, best damn thing in the world!