Hey guys, would really appreciate some advice on this. I'll try to condense the story.
I was at a restaurant the other night by myself. A hot girl came in and sat at a table across/behind me. I ended up opening her and, after some small talk, invited her to join me at my table if she wanted. She said yes. She seemed intrigued by me (I'm a Canadian/British citizen living in Europe and am learning her language.) I was getting to know her and also teasing. She had only arrived that evening and was traveling to her country very early the next morning.
Fast forward, I invite her to a nearby bar. She says yes. She chooses a couch and I sit right beside her. I made sure to use good girl-topics. She mentions that she just got out of a 4 year relationship last month and that she's open to meeting new people and that it was really cool how we met. She is 22 btw. I show her a secret handshake and do some thumb wrestling where I try to cheat. I qualify/tease her a lot. The dynamic became clearly man to woman and she was showing interest.
We finished our drinks and I went for a move. She was very receptive. We make out and she says right after, "I can come back here (to my current city.)" I then tell her that I'm tempted to kiss her neck. She hesitates for a bit but then takes off her jacket which was covering her neck. As I'm doing this, she's breathing in fast and hard and then initiates kissing again with a smile and touching my face. We leave the bar and make out a bit again outside.
I walk her back. We pass a pool hall and she says she loves playing. I keep the convo going on the walk back. I tell her she has to come back and she playfully says if it's a formal invitation then she will. So I say that it is and she agrees to come back and says that we can hang out and play pool together. In front of her airbnb, we make out more, I pull her into me and feel her body/butt with my hands (over her clothes.) We say goodnight.
I have her on whatsapp. I messaged her the next morning - "Hey! I had a good time with you last night. That was very spontaneous" Then another message to add some callback humour (she mentioned that she vapes secretly on planes) so I wrote, "If you get caught vaping on the plane, just point to the nearest old lady and blame her
" There are two blue checkmarks but she hasn't answered in two and a half days.
This whole encounter happened in under 2 hours. She mentioned earlier that she couldn't come to my place because she had to be up super early to travel so I didn't push for that.
Wondering if this is buyer's remorse and, if so, how to salvage it. I haven't messaged her since the last message I sent. I wonder if I should address the possible over-escalation and tell her that I actually liked her personality/getting to know her and that I would like to see her again.
I was at a restaurant the other night by myself. A hot girl came in and sat at a table across/behind me. I ended up opening her and, after some small talk, invited her to join me at my table if she wanted. She said yes. She seemed intrigued by me (I'm a Canadian/British citizen living in Europe and am learning her language.) I was getting to know her and also teasing. She had only arrived that evening and was traveling to her country very early the next morning.
Fast forward, I invite her to a nearby bar. She says yes. She chooses a couch and I sit right beside her. I made sure to use good girl-topics. She mentions that she just got out of a 4 year relationship last month and that she's open to meeting new people and that it was really cool how we met. She is 22 btw. I show her a secret handshake and do some thumb wrestling where I try to cheat. I qualify/tease her a lot. The dynamic became clearly man to woman and she was showing interest.
We finished our drinks and I went for a move. She was very receptive. We make out and she says right after, "I can come back here (to my current city.)" I then tell her that I'm tempted to kiss her neck. She hesitates for a bit but then takes off her jacket which was covering her neck. As I'm doing this, she's breathing in fast and hard and then initiates kissing again with a smile and touching my face. We leave the bar and make out a bit again outside.
I walk her back. We pass a pool hall and she says she loves playing. I keep the convo going on the walk back. I tell her she has to come back and she playfully says if it's a formal invitation then she will. So I say that it is and she agrees to come back and says that we can hang out and play pool together. In front of her airbnb, we make out more, I pull her into me and feel her body/butt with my hands (over her clothes.) We say goodnight.
I have her on whatsapp. I messaged her the next morning - "Hey! I had a good time with you last night. That was very spontaneous" Then another message to add some callback humour (she mentioned that she vapes secretly on planes) so I wrote, "If you get caught vaping on the plane, just point to the nearest old lady and blame her
" There are two blue checkmarks but she hasn't answered in two and a half days. This whole encounter happened in under 2 hours. She mentioned earlier that she couldn't come to my place because she had to be up super early to travel so I didn't push for that.
Wondering if this is buyer's remorse and, if so, how to salvage it. I haven't messaged her since the last message I sent. I wonder if I should address the possible over-escalation and tell her that I actually liked her personality/getting to know her and that I would like to see her again.
