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Mr STIF

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Hi @seanmagy, I'm in Nigeria and yes you need to have both game(provider of good emotions) and be somewhat of a provider of good experiences

The male/female codependence rate is high compared to advanced countries- that is: women tend to depend on men for materialistic things.

They even sort of objectify men(seeing them totally as moneybags) the same way we sexually objectify them(seeing them as sex objects).

But do you also know that too much money or wealth also ruins your game to an extent. Some girls will come home with you with the intentions of sex and see how well your apartment is and your lifestyle(especially if you live in rich neighborhoods and she's coming from a middle-class or low class neighborhood). Boom! She starts seeing you as 'husband material' or 'boyfriend material'- shuts the doors of sex in order to tie you down for a long term commitment.

As with everything in life: calibration is key. You don't need to be the richest man in Africa all you need is to be wealthy enough to have some basic life stuffs down like living in your own apartment(rented or bought), have a fun lifestyle(you need money to hangout,go on dates and your dates most be simple and close to your house).Having a car isn't important if you can order an Uber.

There are no much social events but there are local gyms and yoga center. I've been cold approaching since 2015, mobile apps will help you too- instagram, badoo and tinder.

I'm working towards moving out of my parent's house(it's my major sticking point now) to start a new life at a nearby University with young stunning women and from my calculations it's gonna take at least a year and half of serious grind and savings but I'm up to the task because I know my game is gonna improve.

Seduction or Your game style which is ultimately how you influence people both male and female either for business or sex or status is somehow tied to your financial capabilities e.g if you're very rich you'll probably live in rich neighborhoods and the quality of women and lifestyle would be different from middle class or low class folks.

I drink alcohol so I invite them for a drink. I make use of cheap guest houses or hotels and try to make sure the woman is heavily invested in me- I also make sure to ask her before booking a room so that I don't waste my money.

That's it brother. Game isn't just providing good emotions but nice and adventurous experiences too and you need some money to provide those experiences.

Mr Stif.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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