Hey all,
So there's this girl that I am absolutely infactuated with, I'm in love with her, I find it hard to believe I could ever find someone more beautiful than her. When things are going well, I'm the happiest guy alive. I've had this obsession for her for about 3 years. We have dated but not officially, as the same thing happens every time we begin showing interest in eachother. She tells me "let's hangout" and I end up asking her to hangout and we will, and no matter how well it goes, the next time I ask her to hangout she cancels on me and makes a stupid excuse. At this point this is where I pump the brakes and I begin to tell myself I have GOT to move on... The next thing I know she's texting me again and is flirting with me, and she tells me she wants to come watch my next basketball game.Obviously I'm just stoked about this and I end up thinking maybe she really just couldn't hangout, so I set up another date. But before that We were at the same party and she was flirting with me there (our date was supposed to be 4 days after this party)but she cancels on me despite the emotions she was ahowing me at this party 4 days earlier... This didn't make any sense to me as I was almost 300% sure I was finally going to successfully pursue this girl. I end up asking her "what's going on about all this because I don't know what to do anymore" and she told me she has moved on but she thinks after my schedule clears up we could try again because we just never really got to hangout much??? This pissed me off because I had a busy schedule with sports and stuff but, whenever I had a free day, she was my priority. I confronted her about this and she apologized and told me it was not fair to me it's just she doesn't know what she wants. That night, I really opened upy heart to her and told her how I have always felt about her and she was flattered, but she showed other people the texts I sent and people told me all she said was "f*** me, nope". Whatever that means.
Basically after this I haven't talked since, but last week she texted me and now I'm thinking about her again, I know there's not really much more I can do or say and you guys will probably just say you have to move on but that's easier said than done, man I can't just turn off feelings, when I think about this girl and only this girl, I can feel some sort of feeling in my stomach. It just bothers me that I found this girl that means this much to me but it has to be this hard. I feel like loving someone should not be this difficult.
What's your guys take on this?
This is probably a dumb question, but should I ever text this girl again? I really want to but after everything she has put me threw, I don't feel it's right.
Am I supposed to just give up on this girl and call a spade a spade?
Thanks guys
So there's this girl that I am absolutely infactuated with, I'm in love with her, I find it hard to believe I could ever find someone more beautiful than her. When things are going well, I'm the happiest guy alive. I've had this obsession for her for about 3 years. We have dated but not officially, as the same thing happens every time we begin showing interest in eachother. She tells me "let's hangout" and I end up asking her to hangout and we will, and no matter how well it goes, the next time I ask her to hangout she cancels on me and makes a stupid excuse. At this point this is where I pump the brakes and I begin to tell myself I have GOT to move on... The next thing I know she's texting me again and is flirting with me, and she tells me she wants to come watch my next basketball game.Obviously I'm just stoked about this and I end up thinking maybe she really just couldn't hangout, so I set up another date. But before that We were at the same party and she was flirting with me there (our date was supposed to be 4 days after this party)but she cancels on me despite the emotions she was ahowing me at this party 4 days earlier... This didn't make any sense to me as I was almost 300% sure I was finally going to successfully pursue this girl. I end up asking her "what's going on about all this because I don't know what to do anymore" and she told me she has moved on but she thinks after my schedule clears up we could try again because we just never really got to hangout much??? This pissed me off because I had a busy schedule with sports and stuff but, whenever I had a free day, she was my priority. I confronted her about this and she apologized and told me it was not fair to me it's just she doesn't know what she wants. That night, I really opened upy heart to her and told her how I have always felt about her and she was flattered, but she showed other people the texts I sent and people told me all she said was "f*** me, nope". Whatever that means.
Basically after this I haven't talked since, but last week she texted me and now I'm thinking about her again, I know there's not really much more I can do or say and you guys will probably just say you have to move on but that's easier said than done, man I can't just turn off feelings, when I think about this girl and only this girl, I can feel some sort of feeling in my stomach. It just bothers me that I found this girl that means this much to me but it has to be this hard. I feel like loving someone should not be this difficult.
What's your guys take on this?
This is probably a dumb question, but should I ever text this girl again? I really want to but after everything she has put me threw, I don't feel it's right.
Am I supposed to just give up on this girl and call a spade a spade?
Thanks guys
