"I don't want to have sex on the first date"

[Dragonetti]

This is incredibly helpful gentlemen, thanks so much. The posters here are truly the GOATs.

I actually think he can turn this one around but he would need to set it up in a way where sex is off the table so she doesn’t feel any pressure

Let her feel like he wants to get to know more about her before jumping into a relationship too soon

Then he can reseduce and give her a good time

Thanks @TomInHo ... could you tell me more? How do I play this? What should I text? Options I am considering:

1: "Hey <name>, I think we rushed into sex too quickly. do you wanna go to a comedy show and just have sex be off the table for a bit? so we can get to know each other?"

2: "Hey. Just wondering if we could meet for coffee or lunch or smething. Sex is off the table, I just wanna talk cuz I was excited about you and we obviously had good chemistry"

Or what do you think?