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Ola amigos,
I myself haven't gotten my seduction career completely off the ground. However watching a few videos and series here and there can certainly help reinforce something learnt from GirlsChase e.g the importance of playfulness in seduction-Hank Moody. However I've come to the conclusion that if you want to model yourself around a fictional character or sexy man in pop culture, make sure that you're aware of your identity(check out Chase's excellent piece on the 9 Male Identities https://www.girlschase.com/content/9-ma ... -you-women) and if you decide to internalize certain traits and behaviours, make sure that they're congruent with your own identity first. e.g:
Hank Moody-Artist
Harvey Specter-Businessman, intellectual
It'll save you a lot of embarrassment when trying to act like Russel Brand in an elderly setting or trying to be Don Draper at a pool party.
*maybe it was the fact that I was 'trying' instead of being that caused the embarrassment. lol.
On that note, how important do you guys think it is to nail down an identity as a young and aspiring seducer? Identity and belonging is something I struggled with throughout high school and I feel unsure about my own personality other than from the feedback that I get from other people(which I suspect is mostly biased, but hey, feedback is feedback).
I myself haven't gotten my seduction career completely off the ground. However watching a few videos and series here and there can certainly help reinforce something learnt from GirlsChase e.g the importance of playfulness in seduction-Hank Moody. However I've come to the conclusion that if you want to model yourself around a fictional character or sexy man in pop culture, make sure that you're aware of your identity(check out Chase's excellent piece on the 9 Male Identities https://www.girlschase.com/content/9-ma ... -you-women) and if you decide to internalize certain traits and behaviours, make sure that they're congruent with your own identity first. e.g:
Hank Moody-Artist
Harvey Specter-Businessman, intellectual
It'll save you a lot of embarrassment when trying to act like Russel Brand in an elderly setting or trying to be Don Draper at a pool party.
*maybe it was the fact that I was 'trying' instead of being that caused the embarrassment. lol.
On that note, how important do you guys think it is to nail down an identity as a young and aspiring seducer? Identity and belonging is something I struggled with throughout high school and I feel unsure about my own personality other than from the feedback that I get from other people(which I suspect is mostly biased, but hey, feedback is feedback).
