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@Blackheart -
I’m going to be very direct with you in giving my opinion because you have described the exact place I’m at with women, and have been since I started.
It’s taken me years to embrace the direction given by so many on this board, including @Will_V
Your problem is not technique. Stop worrying about techniques for now. Your problem is entirely inside your head and how your brain is operating.
You have no idea how much you’ve communicated when using terms like “bitches” “whores” and the resistance you gave to some helpful ideas.
Here’s what’s happening to you: Your head is filled with negativity and low self esteem, and that’s being communicated to girls in your body language, actions, and word choice. This is why you swear to Jesus it seems like you’re doing everything right, but nothing works. It’s not the techniques. It’s your head.
You have irrational, negative thoughts and beliefs that need to be corrected. You also need to work on developing and strengthening positive beliefs about yourself.
I recommend to first read The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. This book will help you understand who the authentic you actually is, and how it’s different and separate from your ego. It helps you understand how to correctly use your mind as a tool, rather than letting your thoughts control you. Most importantly, it’ll help you identify the peace and joy that you seek, and how to recognize it’s already inside of you. This will be a big correction to what another poster pointed out: You’ve been approaching these women to get something out of them - the happiness you seek. This isn’t how it works.
Get your head right and start putting in the work to rewire your head. It’ll be long, hard work, but it is the answer to what you seek - a great life with many beautiful women.
The longer you resist this course of action, the longer you’ll have to live with the women issues you described.
I’m going to be very direct with you in giving my opinion because you have described the exact place I’m at with women, and have been since I started.
It’s taken me years to embrace the direction given by so many on this board, including @Will_V
Your problem is not technique. Stop worrying about techniques for now. Your problem is entirely inside your head and how your brain is operating.
You have no idea how much you’ve communicated when using terms like “bitches” “whores” and the resistance you gave to some helpful ideas.
Here’s what’s happening to you: Your head is filled with negativity and low self esteem, and that’s being communicated to girls in your body language, actions, and word choice. This is why you swear to Jesus it seems like you’re doing everything right, but nothing works. It’s not the techniques. It’s your head.
You have irrational, negative thoughts and beliefs that need to be corrected. You also need to work on developing and strengthening positive beliefs about yourself.
I recommend to first read The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. This book will help you understand who the authentic you actually is, and how it’s different and separate from your ego. It helps you understand how to correctly use your mind as a tool, rather than letting your thoughts control you. Most importantly, it’ll help you identify the peace and joy that you seek, and how to recognize it’s already inside of you. This will be a big correction to what another poster pointed out: You’ve been approaching these women to get something out of them - the happiness you seek. This isn’t how it works.
Get your head right and start putting in the work to rewire your head. It’ll be long, hard work, but it is the answer to what you seek - a great life with many beautiful women.
The longer you resist this course of action, the longer you’ll have to live with the women issues you described.
