If America is pro hookup shouldn't that make it easier to get laid?

[OnwardsAndUpwards]

nope we have the same type lol. you find plenty of girls not in a relationship that fit that description in nyc

I can believe that, but plenty is also relative. I'll have to check out NYC again.

 

[Skills]

Lol this escalated quickly, America has an obesity problem and is getting worst, with that being said the new generation of American girls are heavy into fitness I gamed in about 4 generations, the new generation are smoking hot, the fine women in America are in some parts of Florida, California, and you may find some in some parts of new York, those 3 cities very international cities, when you travel there is at times a reality distortion since you are looking at women for the first time, chase had a good article somewhere making similar point

 

[Skills]

This is something that has crossed my mind recently. I have heard a couple times about America being a country that promotes hookup culture and yet most guys just aren't getting laid for a variety of reasons that we're already privy to. Playing too many videogames,watching porn,scrolling thru ig and tik tok simping for thots with OF, smoking weed,using online dating where it's 80% men,not working on their fundamentals.

If America is a sexually liberal country and women are encouraged,permitted to hookup shouldn't that make it easier for guys to take advantage and get laid? Or does it not matter because the vast majority of men today are too softened by the influence of the media and women and been bamboozled into believing masculinity is sexist,mysogynistic,fuckboys are bad etc.

I wonder how women find partners if a good chunk of men don't act like men. Ik in Chase's article on women's standards he kind of disproved the notion of 80% women fucking the top 20% of men cuz that's pretty lopsided and there are guys in the middle who luck into relationships and hookups.

Is the hookup culture only relevant to party environments like party towns,colleges, nightlife?

The statistics are that men and women alike are actually getting laid way less. .. everything went to shit with online dating and social media that have totally fucked the dynamics... with that being said if you adapt and keep grinding you should be ok, these types of posts don't serve you.... keep working on what you can control your fundamentals, going out constantly and grinding, being open minded and using critical thinking without following stuff blindly, field testing etc...don't worry about what you can't control

 

[Starboy]

The statistics are that men and women alike are actually getting laid way less. .. everything went to shit with online dating and social media that have totally fucked the dynamics... with that being said if you adapt and keep grinding you should be ok, these types of posts don't serve you.... keep working on what you can control your fundamentals, going out constantly and grinding, being open minded and using critical thinking without following stuff blindly, field testing etc...don't worry about what you can't control

Yeah I am trying my best hermano! I was simply curious because it's just confounding to me how hard it is to get laid for guys in this day and age. I don't like being one of those guys so I am taking action, learning on my own and i'm making progress so far(going nofap on 8 weeks doesn't hurt either).
Also yeah I didn't expect there to be a discussion midway on America's fat people problem xD

 

[AsianXoligarch]

American girls are very sexually liberated and easy to get into bed -- true.

But here's the conundrum:

A large percentage American girls are chubby/fat/otherwise gross (physically or mentally through whatever weird beliefs they have). And how do you get chubby/otherwise gross? Poor self-control. And what also does poor self-control cause? Really easy sexual promiscuity.

And then the vast majority of attractive ones usually are just locked in relationships.

So what happens is that the American dating scene looks exactly as you'd expect (rough percentages):

• (50%) A ton of attractive girls locked in relationships.
• (40%) The unattractive leftovers kinda floating around and readily visible and easy to lay
• (10%) maybe a few attractive girls who just got out of a relationship, or just want casual sex, or have some weird arbitrary reason why they're not in a relationship yet (the ones you want)

This is what the American dating scene actually looks like. The "80% of girls fucked by 20% of guys" argument is complete horseshit and PUA fantasy.

So if you're into racking up lays with chubby/low quality girls so you can brag to your buddies "I fucked X girls!", there's no better country in the world for that.

If not, Eastern Europe and South America are a ton better (the average single girl there is actually attractive, whereas in the US you can't say the same).

yup 20% to 80% is just some red pill bullshit, retarded catch phase NPC loves using. American girls are aware of not being just a hookup so they screen just as hard especially if they are very attractive. but yeah, there is only a handful of places where they have attractive girls and are made of foreigners mostly. most girls in north America are obese and entitled as fuck, disgusting