If cold approach is rarer these days... why does it seem like it's not more appreciated

[jeremy]

firstly, l would argue that cold approach is more common these days. here;s why. because people are having kids later, this has led to a rise in mentally ill kids who don;t know how to act appropriately. they act inappropriately, don;t know how to socialize, and are therefore shunned by their peers. either that or theyre not welcome into the social circle. at the same time, they still have needs. since they are shunned by their peers, they have no other choice but to cold approach. ln the past, people would've acted more approrpriately, had less mental illness, and therefore, would;ve had an easier time interacting with neighbors, coworkers, classmates, etc, and didn;t need to cold approach. furthermore, people used to live primarily in rural communities and would;ve known most of the people in their community. that has changed today due to urbanization

leprosy is also rarer these days, don;t mean people going to appreciate it

now the reason why cold approach is not appreciated is because people don;t like what;s unfamiliar to them. this is why you see alot of females go back to guys they knew from high school rather than trying to meet a new guy. this is also why u see most couples have known each other for a long time before dating. l also don;t think it has anything to do with the internet because l don;t remember cold approach being appreciated before that either

 

[James D]

That's one of the beautiful things about women, they are emotionally driven and reactive by nature. 1000 guys could approach her a certain way and get rejected, and then you can come in differently and she might be completely open. They rarely hold grudges or develop ideological positions on anything substantial, they mostly just react to who you are then and there. This drives guys mad (especially red pill guys) because they attribute all sorts of ulterior motives and agendas to this reactive behavior that doesn't really exist, at least not generally. And then you get this wild stuff you see on yt like guys rounding up a gaggle of women and trying to debate them on how they are wrong.

In the end, she only really cares about who you are, today, right now, in front of her.

My man just casually dropping insane value bombs

 

[Jacksonville01]

yea I've had a number of girls saying how appreciative they are I approached them and how it was the right way to do it

 

[James D]

@JollyRoger

You know when get in a store or some mall and some guy/girl almost tackles you and tries to sell you something?

You're like "jeez here's another"

Sometimes they're really nice and present you with something free although you know very well they will end up pitching you or asking for your details.

You appreciate them being nice and appreciate the personal small talk they make with you...

...but you also know that it's a facade. They'll repeat the same thing with the following 100 people.

You usually dodge them or give the nice ones some of your time out of politeness.

However, have you ever come across a non-pushy, extremely pleasant salesperson who seemed like they genuinely cared about you, who tried to understand what you need and make you an offer that seemed to solve a problem you had instead of making it feel like a cheap excuse to get your cash?

I've met maybe 2 in my life and I can tell you, their approach was nothing like the hundreds of pushy and fakenice salespeople I've come across.

I ended up purchasing the offer of one of them.

 

[jeremy]

@JollyRoger

You know when get in a store or some mall and some guy/girl almost tackles you and tries to sell you something?

You're like "jeez here's another"

Sometimes they're really nice and present you with something free although you know very well they will end up pitching you or asking for your details.

You appreciate them being nice and appreciate the personal small talk they make with you...

...but you also know that it's a facade. They'll repeat the same thing with the following 100 people.

You usually dodge them or give the nice ones some of your time out of politeness.

However, have you ever come across a non-pushy, extremely pleasant salesperson who seemed like they genuinely cared about you, who tried to understand what you need and make you an offer that seemed to solve a problem you had instead of making it feel like a cheap excuse to get your cash?

I've met maybe 2 in my life and I can tell you, their approach was nothing like the hundreds of pushy and fakenice salespeople I've come across.

I ended up purchasing the offer of one of them.

they kind of remind me of those guys who approach you at the mall asking if you want your shoes cleaned, or a hari krishna who is trying to get donations from you