If i send her a post-date text it will be me triple-texting her

[Skjöldr]

Topcat was correct in the 130 entry, that conversational thread was awful, but you are correct, you need to soft close when she is given you something, in a high note. Topcat come on low odds unless after 3 lays when she is locked in

What would a good follow up text be then to break the ice? A new conversation thread. Just a simple "Hey HB, how's your week going?"?

 

[Skjöldr]

Generally, what's a good text to re-engage girls with later if they don't reply?

 

[Skills]

Generally, what's a good text to re-engage girls with later if they don't reply?

I don't have this issue anymore, since between 8 am to 12 pm I send a simple

Good morning every day, this I have started doing with the last couple of girls I slept with, with really good success, so now they are conditioned to expect it. Re engaging texts:

- it seems we lost momentum from popcorn
-award for worst texter goes to...from pwf
-if you don't want to talk let me know so I stop trying. Pwf

^ I had a girl now in love with me that was the worst possible texter I have ever witnesses

I would write something and she would answer with:

Thanks, k and the likes... I was extremely frustrated with her, so I stopped texting to my surprise during a date I explained to her my frustration with her texting with samples, and how I lost momentum and attraction due to it. She had no idea she is was just in the medical field and thought guys hate texting and the shorter text the better and show me text to her best friend and I was like holy shit you are just horrible at texting with the k shit.. after that she became a normal texter now in love...

Retention comes down to good sex and repeat sex couple of times after all.

 

[Skjöldr]

I don't have this issue anymore, since between 8 am to 12 pm I send a simple

Good morning every day, this I have started doing with the last couple of girls I slept with, with really good success, so now they are conditioned to expect it. Re engaging texts:

- it seems we lost momentum from popcorn
-award for worst texter goes to...from pwf
-if you don't want to talk let me know so I stop trying. Pwf

You send good morning to every girl you number close?

Those re-engagement texts sounds a lil butthurt, no? The "It seems we lost momentum" is good. It doesn't sound butthurt, but it is a take away. I will field test it.

But like what if it is early in the intereaction? Like this girl from yesterday:

Me: Hey Hb, nice to meet you -Peter
Hb: Hey Peter! You too
Me: So what are you gonna do rest of the day beside study?

No reply for a whole day. @fog was talking about how you should open up a new conversation thread and open loops or something but idk what that could be, wouldnbe cool with some examples

 

[Skjöldr]

Or this one also yesterday:
Me: Hey hb, nice to meet you -Peter
Hb: Hey! You too! Thanks for the chat, how often do you do that?
Me: How often do i do what?
Her: Like stopping people
Me: Hmm when i feel like it Though it is rare i meet a sweet little nurse who crashed her Kia! (She crashed her Kia Picanto, so she was on the phone with her dad when i approached but she hung up on him, it wasn't anything serious or dangerous)

I was thinking about just hitting her up with a text asking how the whole car thing is going tomorrow. It just doesn't seem so fancy or flashy. It's a pretty basic text. It's low investment though

 

[Skills]

You send good morning to every girl you number close?

Those re-engagement texts sounds a lil butthurt, no? The "It seems we lost momentum" is good. It doesn't sound butthurt, but it is a take away. I will field test it.

But like what if it is early in the intereaction? Like this girl from yesterday:

Me: Hey Hb, nice to meet you -Peter
Hb: Hey Peter! You too
Me: So what are you gonna do rest of the day beside study?

No reply for a whole day. @fog was talking about how you should open up a new conversation thread and open loops or something but idk what that could be, wouldnbe cool with some examples

No. Girl I slept with context, or strong interaction, I usually open with a follow up conversation thread

 

[Skills]

Or this one also yesterday:
Me: Hey hb, nice to meet you -Peter
Hb: Hey! You too! Thanks for the chat, how often do you do that?
Me: How often do i do what?
Her: Like stopping people
Me: Hmm when i feel like it Though it is rare i meet a sweet little nurse who crashed her Kia! (She crashed her Kia Picanto, so she was on the phone with her dad when i approached but she hung up on him, it wasn't anything serious or dangerous)

I was thinking about just hitting her up with a text asking how the whole car thing is going tomorrow. It just doesn't seem so fancy or flashy. It's a pretty basic text. It's low investment though

Exactly follow up about the car, and then frame as she need to take a break from that stress problem with a handsome fun guy or if she solve the issue she should celebrate with a handsome fun dude, mix conversations with moving forward interaction

 

[Skjöldr]

Exactly follow up about the car, and then frame as she need to take a break from that stress problem with a handsome fun guy or if she solve the issue she should celebrate with a handsome fun dude, mix conversations with moving forward interaction

Yes! Exactly what i was thinking.
And the other girl where i asked her if she was gonna do anything else besides study that night?

 

[Rakkum]

if girls or guys dont answer i used to just copy paste send the same text.

its a low effort clear indication shes being rude. Most women will come back apologising.

If she doesnt answer i dont show up cause i consider her rough on comms or not interested enough. I know there could be more but ive just decided not to spend too much fuzz on "bad leads".

Next.

Damn, excellent but somehow non-obvious... I tried this out and it was able resuscitate a few conversations that were in the weeds.

 

[Glow]

Damn, excellent but somehow non-obvious... I tried this out and it was able resuscitate a few conversations that were in the weeds.

cool.

think about it like this.
in short its just feeling how the girl is acting and making you feel by not following a standard code of conduct, then telling her between the lines wtih a subtext of confidence and low effort. its the same in a club if a girl doesnt answer. just repeat your say, increase the vocal emphasis a lil and hold the vacuum. But without too much effort or expression.

Its coolheaded firmness w a lil punch. not afraid to step up for yourself and your feelings aka she cant fuck around w u. and a subtext that youre used to being answered.