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i'm awful at reading girls am i getting played??

jujux15

Space Monkey
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Me: So what is it you're looking for again?
Her: In a guy?
Me: In general haha a bf a friend friends with benefit whatever
Last time you said me and I was to flattered to remember my question
Her: Lol yea just you.
Me: Nope! Won't work twice
Seriously
Her: Lol oh
I'm not really in to friends with benefits.
Me: Ok I could tell
I like that
Her: Lol mmmmhmm
Me: Bruh when you think waking up at 10 is bad
I'm gonna assume you're not a bad girl unless proven otherwise
Her: Lol don't be fooled Paul.
Me: Mmm you're welcome to prove me wrong
Show me I'm wrong Bria!

Her: Lol seems like the right thing to do
Me: haha alright then you want something serious now I know
Her: I just prefer not to waste good time.
Me: As in?
Her: Lol I'm not too sure how to simplify what I said.
Me: Haha in interpreting it as I want something more and if you don't kindly don't waste my time
Her: Lol semi
I just like good people with good intentions. That's it
Me: Alright then I'm not one for games either that's why I'd rather know what's up
Her: Yea. You seem to be direct, I like that. I'd love to be like you someday. :)

Forgive me guys I'm terrible at reading women I've gone on two dates with her already haven't done anything yet she keeps talking to me weird I know. So is this just a tease??? Is she just using me for free dates I honestly don't know
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WayOfHand

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Oh man... First of all. Don't have these conversations over text. Second. Don't have these conversations at all, at least not so early in your interactions. Let her to be the one doing the chasing, not you!! Use text only to setup meet.

Honestly if you can't seal the deal face to face, you are definitely not gonna do it over text. Just drop worrying about texting. It isn't your problem. The area you need to work on is your fundamentals and such. Use text to setup meet and let her see how sexy man you are. If you can't do this, no amount of texting won't help you. Get the jist of what I'm saying? Peace
 

jujux15

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WayOfHand said:
Oh man... First of all. Don't have these conversations over text. Second. Don't have these conversations at all, at least not so early in your interactions. Let her to be the one doing the chasing, not you!! Use text only to setup meet.

Honestly if you can't seal the deal face to face, you are definitely not gonna do it over text. Just drop worrying about texting. It isn't your problem. The area you need to work on is your fundamentals and such. Use text to setup meet and let her see how sexy man you are. If you can't do this, no amount of texting won't help you. Get the jist of what I'm saying? Peace
To clarify I wasn't asking her to be my gf, I was trying to figure out what she wanted at this point any route would be ok for me except I'm just a straight forward person I like to know what's going on and act accordingly
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

WayOfHand

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To clarify I wasn't asking her to be my gf, I was trying to figure out what she wanted at this point any route would be ok for me except I'm just a straight forward person I like to know what's going on and act accordingly

Yes I could see what you were doing.The problem is that she wants whatever you have to offer (see link below). And what you have on offer is NOT a thing you can just text about. Its your fundamentals and your vibe that define this. Read more in the article and understand that YOU have to choose what role you will fill. Start leading!

https://www.girlschase.com/content/what-women-want
 
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