In love, want to heal

[laalee78]

Hí guys!
Anyone knows how to overcome a break up when you are still trully in love? She might have cheated on me I don't really care, but she started lying alot recently, started asking for money etc.
Get another chick! I know that answer. No thanks, I would like to be single for a few moths, and focus on my life. This girl (mum 42) was too hot and I liked her kid (10), so it's like an emotional blackmail to be away from them.

 

[normajean106]

Are you trying to get her back? Or are you just trying to cope with your current situation?

Well, either way I don't see this ending in a way that doesn't involve you moving on.

There's really nothing you can do about the predicament you're in. And since that's the case, then forget about her and the kid. So what if she was hot? There are millions of hot beauties out there. Believe me when I tell you that there are amazing girls out there that are hotter, more faithful, and have more personality than the witch that cheated on you and took your money.

You can't let this eat at you. You have to forget about this. Its just way too toxic for you to let this bottle up inside you.

And guess what? That toxicity that you get from not letting this go, its going to negatively affect your friends and family as well.

So stop worrying about something you can't control and start focusing on the people who actually care about you.

Think about this for a second. Isn't it crazy to spend your time thinking about one girl who doesn't care for you, while you leave all the people who actually DO care for you in the dark?

So you don't want to date other girls right now. I get it. But what I don't get is the reasoning behind it. I can't help but wonder if the reason you don't want to date is because you still hold that "mum" near and dear to your heart.

Buddy, if you don't want to go out there and meet amazing women, that's fine. But the only way you're ever going to get over this is if you forget about the woman who humiliated you. And the best, most rewarding way to free yourself from this mess is if you take advantage of this opportunity, and go out there and court amazing women who would never even try to do what that "mum" did.

 

[Bboy100]

See: https://www.girlschase.com/content/get-o ... al-freedom