Intimidated by a group of.. Happy girls?

[kalyan]

I'm sure you've experienced this at least a few times in your life. So this is what happened.
I wanted some girl to do something like a survey for me, and she was with her friends (3 in total). Now I just met them there and i dont know them, but they were really happy/ confident/ laughing together, and it was sort of hard for me to "relate".
I know that they sort of boost each other's confidence and make them appear stronger. I also know it has to do with social momentum (they were together while i was alone all day). But how can i not let that get to me? I couldn't be my seductive self. I was so "just finish the survey so i can leave".

 

[Frost]

It seems like a social momentum issue. If they have good momentum and you don't at that particular time, you'll certainly find it harder to relate. Just imagine if you were feeling happy as well and you happen to run into those girls, I'm sure it would be different.